{"id":10296,"date":"2013-06-03T09:00:09","date_gmt":"2013-06-03T04:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=10296"},"modified":"2013-06-01T18:38:50","modified_gmt":"2013-06-01T13:38:50","slug":"eyni-dili-danisanlar-deyil-eyni-duygulari-paylasanlar-anlasirlar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=10296","title":{"rendered":"\u201cEyni dili dan\u0131\u015fanlar deyil, eyni duy\u011fular\u0131 payla\u015fanlar anla\u015f\u0131rlar\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-10297\" alt=\"d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/05\/d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259-300x300.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/>\u0130nsanlar h\u0259yat\u0131 birlikd\u0259 payla\u015facaq, ist\u0259k v\u0259 arzular\u0131 birlikd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131layacaq, h\u0259d\u0259f\u0259 birlikd\u0259 add\u0131mlayacaq, sevinc v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fayacaq qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 yarad\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar. Bu is\u0259 o dem\u0259kdir ki, evl\u0259nm\u0259k, ail\u0259 qurmaq \u0259b\u0259di bir ehtiyacd\u0131r v\u0259 bu ehtiyac Uca Yaradan\u0131n biz\u0259 bir l\u00fctf\u00fcd\u00fcr. Daha vacib m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 is\u0259 evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra bu evliliyi xo\u015fb\u0259xt, sa\u011flam v\u0259 mehriban \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 davam etdirm\u0259kdir. El\u0259 bu yaz\u0131m\u0131n da \u0259sas m\u0259qs\u0259di bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulub.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u018fn \u00e7ox da qad\u0131nlara aid olan bu c\u00fcml\u0259ni y\u0259qin ki, siz d\u0259 e\u015fitmisiniz: \u201cEvl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra d\u0259yi\u015fdi\u201d. B\u0259li, buna dem\u0259k olar ki, bir \u00e7ox hallarda rast g\u0259lirik.<\/p>\n<p>Evlilik \u0259r\u0259f\u0259sind\u0259, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259, ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131q d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 insanlar bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 daha n\u0259zak\u0259tli v\u0259 diqq\u0259tli davransalar da, evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra b\u0259zi anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar ortaya \u00e7\u0131xma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Daha \u0259vv\u0259l f\u0259rqli z\u00f6vql\u0259rini, f\u0259rqli ist\u0259kl\u0259rini v\u0259 f\u0259rqli arzular\u0131n\u0131 bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa, eynil\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan f\u0259rdl\u0259r art\u0131q \u00f6zl\u0259rin\u0259 xas d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 sahibdirl\u0259r. Bunun \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131q d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 olan daha qabar\u0131q olan duy\u011fular\u0131n evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra nisb\u0259t\u0259n z\u0259ifl\u0259m\u0259sidir. Bunu da qad\u0131nlar daha tez sezirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar anal\u0131q duy\u011fusu kimi ali bir hissl\u0259 t\u0259chiz edildikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha h\u0259ssasd\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259s ki\u00e7ik m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259rin, b\u00f6y\u00fck m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7evrilm\u0259sinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259k lazmd\u0131r? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 ki, sevgi, h\u00f6rm\u0259t, f\u0259rdl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 etimad\u0131 v\u0259 etibar\u0131 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fch\u00fcm \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri olaraq qal\u0131r. M\u0259n is\u0259 bunlar\u0131n he\u00e7 birind\u0259n deyil, fikrimc\u0259, insanlar\u0131n \u0259n \u00e7ox diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li olduqlar\u0131 bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 bar\u0259d\u0259, y\u0259ni \u201cdiqq\u0259tli olmaq\u201d bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fmaq ist\u0259rdim. M\u00f6vzunun mahiyy\u0259tini m\u00fcmk\u00fcn q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0131sa \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 izah etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011fam.<\/p>\n<p>G\u0259lin, \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259, qad\u0131nlardan ba\u015flayaq. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131n diqq\u0259t etm\u0259li olduqlar\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259inam hissini ver\u0259 bilm\u0259l\u0259ridir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z evd\u0259ki h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir \u0259\u015fyan\u0131 t\u0259mir etm\u0259k ist\u0259diyini dedikd\u0259, \u201cS\u0259n bacarmazsan\u201d, \u201cS\u0259nlik deyil\u201d v\u0259 s. kimi cavablar verils\u0259, bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259d\u0259n sonra art\u0131q o, sizin fikrinizi soru\u015fma\u011fa ehtiyac duymayacaq. \u018fg\u0259r, h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n, t\u0259miri \u00e7\u0259tin bir \u0259\u015fyad\u0131rsa v\u0259 bunu t\u0259mir ed\u0259c\u0259yin\u0259 inanm\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, \u201cM\u0259nc\u0259, usta \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r, daha tez h\u0259ll olsun, vaxt\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015f yer\u0259 israf etm\u0259\u201d cavab\u0131n\u0131 vers\u0259niz, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n sevgisini bir daha yenid\u0259n qazanm\u0131\u015f olars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Diqq\u0259t bax\u0131m\u0131ndan qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox t\u0259l\u0259bkard\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131nlar g\u00f6rd\u00fckl\u0259ri i\u015fin t\u0259rifl\u0259nm\u0259sini, g\u00f6z\u0259 \u00e7arpmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar ki, bunu vaxt\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcb, t\u0259qdir etsinl\u0259r. O cuml\u0259d\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259r aktiv dinl\u0259yici olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar ki, qad\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259 dem\u0259k ist\u0259diyini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fs\u00fcnl\u0259r. Bir q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259vv\u0259l d\u0259 vur\u011fulad\u0131\u011f\u0131m kimi, qad\u0131nlar anal\u0131q duy\u011fusu il\u0259 yarad\u0131ld\u0131qlar\u0131ndan daha h\u0259ssasd\u0131rlar v\u0259 tez hissetm\u0259, h\u0259m\u00e7inin daha tez anlama qabiliyy\u0259tin\u0259 malikdirl\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131nlar b\u0259z\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259ri d\u0259 \u00f6zl\u0259ri kimi hesab etdikl\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir s\u0131ra m\u00fcbahis\u0259l\u0259r v\u0259 k\u00fcsk\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259r meydana g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0259 is\u0259 ist\u0259dikd\u0259 ad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259d\u0259n ondan uzun-uzad\u0131 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri bu \u015feyin n\u0259 oldugunu ki\u015fil\u0259rin tapmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r biz onun n\u0259 oldu\u011funu tap\u0131b alsaq, bu onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fck bir surpriz olar. Yox, \u0259g\u0259r \u0259ks-hal ba\u015f vers\u0259, dem\u0259li, onu dinl\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259 diqq\u0259tsiz davranm\u0131\u015f\u0131q. Bu is\u0259 onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u00f6y\u00fck z\u0259rb\u0259 dem\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259diyy\u0259ni, s\u00fcrprizi ham\u0131 xo\u015flay\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar is\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yatlar\u0131 boyu bunu ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Bizd\u0259n yaln\u0131z ad g\u00fcnl\u0259rind\u0259 v\u0259 bayramlarda yox, h\u0259r g\u00fcn s\u00fcrprizl\u0259r g\u00f6zl\u0259yirl\u0259r. Bu, ilk bax\u0131\u015fdan \u00e7\u0259tin g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u0259 d\u0259, \u0259slind\u0259 \u00e7ox asand\u0131r. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq, onlara sona q\u0259d\u0259r qulaq asmaq v\u0259 dedikl\u0259rini diqq\u0259tl\u0259 dinl\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki onlar\u0131n ist\u0259kl\u0259ri dedikl\u0259ri s\u00f6zl\u0259rd\u0259 gizl\u0259nir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcst\u0259lik, qad\u0131nlar dinl\u0259nilm\u0259dikl\u0259rini g\u00f6rd\u00fckd\u0259 sevilm\u0259dikl\u0259rini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. Dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 onlar\u0131n daha emosional olmalar\u0131d\u0131r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, qad\u0131nlar \u201cyox\u201d cavab\u0131 almaqdan qorxurlar. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 dolay\u0131 yollarla ist\u0259dikl\u0259rini anlatma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131n dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131rsa v\u0259 ya q\u0131sa dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rsa, \u0259min olun ki, i\u015fl\u0259r qaydas\u0131nda getmir. N\u0259bad\u0259 bunu ki\u00e7ik bir \u015fey kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcb \u00fcstund\u0259n ke\u00e7\u0259siniz. Yoxsa, bu sizin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck \u201cba\u015fa\u011fr\u0131s\u0131na\u201d \u00e7evril\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Ki\u015fil\u0259rin diqq\u0259tli olmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n dig\u0259r bir x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259t is\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131na \u0259sl xan\u0131m kimi m\u00fcnasib\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259si v\u0259 bunu ona hiss etdirm\u0259sidir. Dem\u0259li, nec\u0259 ki, ki\u015fil\u0259r bir ail\u0259 ba\u015f\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 kimi h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6rm\u0259k v\u0259 ya s\u00f6z sahibi olmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259rs\u0259, qad\u0131nlar da evin xan\u0131m\u0131 kimi n\u0259zak\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6zl\u0259yirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>He\u00e7 bir qad\u0131n ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n \u201cm\u00fczakir\u0259 obyekti\u201d olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259m\u0259z. H\u0259tta o \u00f6z\u00fc bunu ets\u0259 bel\u0259, siz onlara bax\u0131b d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclm\u0259mi\u015f cavablar verm\u0259yin. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z atas\u0131n\u0131n yem\u0259k yem\u0259yind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fark\u0259n: \u201cAtam \u00e7ox s\u0259liq\u0259siz yem\u0259k yeyir\u201d deyirs\u0259, bu, h\u0259qiq\u0259t olsa bel\u0259, siz onunla eyni fikird\u0259 olma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. \u018fksin\u0259, bunun el\u0259 d\u0259 problem olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 daha s\u0259mimi v\u0259 i\u015ftaha\u00e7an bir m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 meydana g\u0259tirdiyini deyin. Bel\u0259 olduqda h\u0259m yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n fikirl\u0259rind\u0259ki m\u0259nfi komleksi silmi\u015f olar, h\u0259m d\u0259 onun ail\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r verdiyinizi hiss etdirmi\u015f olars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259s b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131 h\u0259ll etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 etm\u0259liyik? Sevincl\u0259r payla\u015fd\u0131qca \u00e7oxal\u0131r, k\u0259d\u0259rl\u0259r is\u0259 payla\u015fd\u0131qca azal\u0131r. Dem\u0259li, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259, bu \u015f\u0259raiti yaratmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Yor\u011fun ki\u015fi ev\u0259 g\u0259rgin d\u00f6n\u00fcr. \u00c7ay\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7ib, yem\u0259yini yeyir, sonra televizorun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na ke\u00e7ib, m\u00fcxt\u0259lif proqramlarla v\u0259 ya futbolla vaxt\u0131n\u0131 ke\u00e7irir. B\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc ev i\u015fl\u0259ri il\u0259 yorulan ana is\u0259 hirsli-hirsli m\u0259tb\u0259x i\u015fl\u0259ri il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011fuldur. H\u0259r k\u0259sin g\u00fcnd\u0259m\u0259 g\u0259tir\u0259c\u0259yi probleml\u0259r v\u0259 ya ist\u0259kl\u0259r var. Ancaq yor\u011funluq v\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259t sanki b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n \u00f6hd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyilmi\u015f kimi, bir psixoloji \u015f\u0259rait yarad\u0131r. V\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-birini \u201cincitm\u0259m\u0259k\u201d \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dan\u0131\u015fmama\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirl\u0259r. Bu is\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 g\u0259rginliyi v\u0259 soyuqlu\u011fu daha da art\u0131r\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnki dan\u0131\u015fmasan\u0131z, d\u0259rdl\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7ar\u0259 tap\u0131lmaz, probleml\u0259r h\u0259ll olunmaz.<\/p>\n<p>Ail\u0259d\u0259 s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t yoxdursa, dem\u0259li, problem \u00e7oxdur. H\u0259r problemi dan\u0131\u015faraq h\u0259ll ed\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 daha s\u0259mimi atmosfer yaran\u0131r. Sakit v\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 qapal\u0131 f\u0259rdl\u0259rd\u0259n t\u0259\u015fkil edil\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 is\u0259 bunun \u0259ksi ba\u015f verir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 n\u0259 olursa olsun, \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131zla v\u0259 ya u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131zla dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa, s\u00f6hb\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 m\u0259cbur etm\u0259liyik. H\u0259tta bunu planl\u0131 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 d\u0259 etm\u0259k olar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, g\u0259lin evimizd\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259t saat\u0131 quraq v\u0259 bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn el\u0259 vaxt sec\u0259k ki, hec kimin i\u015fin\u0259 mane olmas\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>\u018fg\u0259r \u201cn\u0259 haqda s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259c\u0259yik?\u201d deyirsinizs\u0259, \u0259n sad\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015flaya bil\u0259rsiniz. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, n\u00f6vb\u0259ti g\u00fcn\u00fcn planlar\u0131 bar\u0259d\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 ya g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc nec\u0259 ke\u00e7irdiyinizi \u201ct\u0259hlil ed\u0259r\u0259k\u201d, s\u00f6hb\u0259t\u0259 ba\u015flaya bil\u0259rsiniz. Dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qca h\u0259r k\u0259sin d\u0259rdl\u0259ri v\u0259 ya ist\u0259kl\u0259ri ayd\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r. Bundan sonraki m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 is\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. V\u0259 sonda s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc M\u00f6vlanan\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 bitirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m: \u201cEyni dili dan\u0131\u015fanlar deyil, eyni duy\u011fular\u0131 payla\u015fanlar anla\u015f\u0131rlar\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0259nb\u0259: &#8220;Ail\u0259m&#8221; jurnal\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nsanlar h\u0259yat\u0131 birlikd\u0259 payla\u015facaq, ist\u0259k v\u0259 arzular\u0131 birlikd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131layacaq, h\u0259d\u0259f\u0259 birlikd\u0259 add\u0131mlayacaq, sevinc v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fayacaq qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 yarad\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar. 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