{"id":14592,"date":"2014-02-14T14:19:56","date_gmt":"2014-02-14T10:19:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=14592"},"modified":"2014-02-14T14:19:56","modified_gmt":"2014-02-14T10:19:56","slug":"dostunu-gost%c9%99r-deyim-kims%c9%99n","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=14592","title":{"rendered":"Dostunu g\u00f6st\u0259r, deyim kims\u0259n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/dostluq1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-14594\" alt=\"dostluq\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/dostluq1-400x423.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"423\" \/><\/a>Sevimli Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz (s.\u0259.s.) buyurur ki, yax\u015f\u0131 dost \u0259ttar (\u0259tir haz\u0131rlayan v\u0259 satan) kimidir, d\u00fckan\u0131na ged\u0259rs\u0259n, oturub s\u00f6hb\u0259t ed\u0259rs\u0259n, he\u00e7 bir \u015fey almadan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b gets\u0259n d\u0259, o d\u00fckandan \u00fcst-ba\u015f\u0131na hopan g\u00f6z\u0259l qoxu g\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 s\u0259ni t\u0259rk etm\u0259z; pis dost is\u0259 k\u00f6r\u00fck\u00e7\u00fc kimidir, yan\u0131nda oturarsan, o d\u0259rinin, dabba\u011f\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r qoxusu, hisi hopar can\u0131na v\u0259 s\u0259n hara gets\u0259n, insanlar s\u0259nin bu hal\u0131ndan \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259k\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259kc\u0259 \u0259tir qoxusu, d\u0259ri iyi deyil, xasiyy\u0259tl\u0259r, davran\u0131\u015flar da yoluxucu olur, insanlardan bir-birin\u0259 ke\u00e7ir. B\u0259z\u0259n s\u0259n f\u0259rqin\u0259 varm\u0131rsan, amma birisi il\u0259 uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t oturub-durandan sonra qeyri-iradi olaraq onun hans\u0131sa davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, x\u00fcsusiyy\u0259tini t\u0259krarlay\u0131rsan. B\u0259lk\u0259 el\u0259 buna g\u00f6r\u0259dir ki, sevgilil\u0259r s\u0259vgilisi H\u0259zr\u0259ti M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d (s.\u0259.s.) t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir ki, g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz zaman biz\u0259 Allah\u0131, Axir\u0259t g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc xat\u0131rladan insanlarla dost olaq. \u201cAllah\u0131 xat\u0131rladan\u201d ifad\u0259si zehinl\u0259rd\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015f t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259r do\u011furmas\u0131n, bu ifad\u0259 Allahdan qorxan, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259r m\u0259qam\u0131n\u0131 Allah\u0131n g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259diyi kimi ya\u015fayan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259ri n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutur.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dostluq, s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t \u015f\u0259xsi m\u00fcst\u0259vid\u0259 deyil, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259r \u0259traf\u0131nda qurulanda etibarl\u0131 olur. Bu m\u0259nada bir-birini dost tutan, sev\u0259n iki m\u00fcs\u0259lman d\u00fcz x\u0259tt \u00fczr\u0259 deyil, \u00e7ox-\u00e7ox y\u00fcks\u0259kd\u0259 h\u0259r ikisinin qovu\u015fdu\u011fu bir n\u00f6qt\u0259d\u0259 birl\u0259\u015firl\u0259r. S\u00f6zl\u0259r, davran\u0131\u015flar, h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r bir-birinin z\u00f6vq\u00fcn\u0259, xarakterin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 deyil, Allah-T\u0259alan\u0131n m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etdiyi \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n ke\u00e7\u0259r\u0259k bir t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n o birisin\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r.\u00a0 T\u00fcrkiy\u0259d\u0259 insanlar bir-birin\u0259 \u00f6z s\u0259mimiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini bildir\u0259nd\u0259 \u201cS\u0259ni Allah \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevir\u0259m\u201d deyirl\u0259r. Bir m\u00fcs\u0259lman\u0131n ba\u015fqa bir m\u00fcs\u0259lman\u0131 Allah \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sevm\u0259si sevil\u0259nin Allah\u0131n r\u0259\u011fb\u0259tini, m\u0259mnunlu\u011funu qazanmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, sev\u0259nin d\u0259 onda bu keyfiyy\u0259ti bilm\u0259si kimi izah olunur.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6z\u0259l bir s\u00f6z var: Dost ist\u0259rs\u0259n, Allah yet\u0259r; h\u0259md\u0259m ist\u0259rs\u0259n, Quran yet\u0259r; ibr\u0259t ist\u0259rs\u0259n, \u00f6l\u00fcm yet\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>\u018fn b\u00f6y\u00fck dost Allahd\u0131r. Allah-T\u0259alan\u0131n dostlu\u011fu sars\u0131lmazs\u0131r, \u0259n etibarl\u0131 dostluqdur.<\/p>\n<p>Allah-T\u0259ala Onunla dost olma\u011f\u0131n da yollar\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131q-ayd\u0131n s\u00f6yl\u0259yir.<\/p>\n<p>Quran insana Allahla dost olma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6yr\u0259dir.<\/p>\n<p>Allahla dost olanlar d\u00fcnyan\u0131 sevm\u0259zl\u0259r, d\u00fcnyan\u0131 sev\u0259nl\u0259r Allah\u0131 sev\u0259 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Allahla dost olmaq k\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fcnya cazib\u0259sind\u0259n, z\u00f6vq\u00fcnd\u0259n ar\u0131nd\u0131rmaqla, t\u0259mizl\u0259m\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Allahla dost olanlar bu dostluqdan dan\u0131\u015fmazlar, dan\u0131\u015fanlar bu dostlu\u011fun n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259rdirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Allahla dost olanlar Allah\u0131n yaratd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 Allah \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sev\u0259rl\u0259r, M\u00f6vlana demi\u015fk\u0259n, yarad\u0131lan\u0131 Yaradandan \u00f6tr\u00fc sev\u0259rl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Allah\u0131 sev\u0259n Onun b\u0259nd\u0259sin\u0259 haqs\u0131zl\u0131q etm\u0259z. B\u0259nd\u0259y\u0259 haqs\u0131zl\u0131q ed\u0259n Allah\u0131 sevdiyini iddia el\u0259m\u0259sin.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Bir h\u0259disi-\u015f\u0259rifind\u0259 R\u0259sulullah (s.\u0259.s.) buyurur ki, Allah dostlar\u0131 insanlar aras\u0131nda gizli olar, n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7arpmazlar, bir yer\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259dikd\u0259 onu axtarmazlar, adamlar aras\u0131na \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131qda is\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131 onun Allah yan\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u0259qam\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259zl\u0259r. T\u0259xmini anlam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259diyimiz bu h\u0259dis \u0259slind\u0259 Allah dostlar\u0131n\u0131n bir c\u0259h\u0259tini, daha do\u011frusu, onlar\u0131n n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r sad\u0259, t\u0259vaz\u00f6kar oldu\u011funu g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u0130nsandan t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131 olmaz bel\u0259l\u0259rinin. Allah dostlar\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131 Allahdan olar, b\u0259nd\u0259d\u0259n olmaz.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259m\u0259nna m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si insanlar\u0131 bir-birind\u0259n ay\u0131ran m\u00fch\u00fcm amildir: kimin t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131 Allahdand\u0131rsa, bu d\u00fcnyaya k\u00f6n\u00fcl verm\u0259z, kimin t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131 d\u00fcnyadand\u0131rsa, Allah\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259sin!<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Qurani-K\u0259rim dostluq haqda bel\u0259 buyurur: \u201cSizin dostunuz, yard\u0131m\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z ancaq Allahd\u0131r, onun Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259ridir. Allah\u0131n \u0259mrl\u0259rin\u0259 boyun \u0259y\u0259r\u0259k (\u0130slam \u015f\u0259ri\u0259tin\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131, iman v\u0259 Quran h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259rk-b\u0259rk sar\u0131lan), namaz\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru-d\u00fczg\u00fcn q\u0131lan, z\u0259kat\u0131n\u0131 ver\u0259n m\u00f6minl\u0259rdir. Kim Allah\u0131,\u00a0 Onun pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rini v\u0259 inananlar\u0131 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 dost tutarsa, bilsin ki, \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259siz, Allaha t\u0259r\u0259f olanlar \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u0259lirl\u0259r\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>F\u0259dakarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n t\u0259k qayna\u011f\u0131 Allaha imand\u0131r. Ancaq Allaha inanm\u0131\u015f insan d\u00fcnyan\u0131n h\u0259r naz-nem\u0259tind\u0259n imtina edib, \u00f6n\u00fcnd\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131lm\u0131\u015f cazib\u0259li, amma u\u00e7urumlara aparan qap\u0131lar\u0131n yan\u0131ndan laqeydc\u0259 \u00f6t\u00fcb ke\u00e7\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Allah-T\u0259ala (c.c.) \u0130brahim Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259ri (\u0259.s.) \u00d6z\u00fcn\u0259 dost se\u00e7di. \u0130brahim Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r bu dostlu\u011fa layiq oldu\u011funu d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 isbat el\u0259mi\u015fdi.<\/p>\n<p>Xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 kafir h\u00f6kmdar\u0131n yan\u0131nda qoyub, Allah\u0131n \u0259mri il\u0259 ba\u015fqa ota\u011fa ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259 namusunu Allaha \u0259man\u0259t el\u0259mi\u015fdi; N\u0259mrudun yand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 da\u011f boyda tonqala do\u011fru s\u00fcz\u0259rk\u0259n havada \u201cHasbinAllah\u201d, y\u0259ni Allah m\u0259n\u0259 yet\u0259r, O m\u0259nim hal\u0131m\u0131 bildis\u0259, m\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259yi r\u0259va g\u00f6rd\u00fcs\u0259, q\u0259buldur, Ondan ba\u015fqa kims\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcz tutmaram, kims\u0259d\u0259n bir \u015fey ist\u0259m\u0259r\u0259m\u201d dey\u0259nd\u0259 can\u0131n\u0131 Allaha \u0259man\u0259t el\u0259mi\u015fdi; Allah bel\u0259 ist\u0259yir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259sil\u0259 sevimli \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na b\u0131\u00e7a\u011f\u0131 \u00e7\u0259k\u0259nd\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 Allaha \u0259man\u0259t el\u0259mi\u015fdi.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259r \u015feyin Sahibi olan Allah \u00f6z qulunun \u0259man\u0259tini zay ed\u0259rmi?- \u018fsla etm\u0259z. Etm\u0259di d\u0259, h\u0259l\u0259 \u00fcst\u0259lik, bu t\u0259slimiyy\u0259tin qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 bir m\u00fckafat da qoyub \u0130brahim\u0259 qaytard\u0131, \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131cas\u0131 is\u0259 \u0130brahimi d\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 dost el\u0259di.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Sevgili Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz H\u0259zr\u0259ti M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d (s.\u0259.s.) bir h\u0259disi-\u015f\u0259rifind\u0259 bel\u0259 deyir: \u201c\u0130nsan dostunun dini \u00fczr\u0259dir. O halda sizd\u0259n h\u0259r biriniz dost se\u00e7diyiniz adama diqq\u0259t etsin! Pis dostdan uzaq durun! \u00c7\u00fcnki ad\u0131n\u0131z onunla birlikd\u0259 tan\u0131nar! Ancaq h\u0259qiqi m\u00f6minl\u0259rl\u0259 dost olun! \u0130ki\u00fczl\u00fc il\u0259 dostluq qurmay\u0131n! Ondan pis xasiyy\u0259t g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u0259rsiniz! \u0130nsan ancaq sevdiyi v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t qurdu\u011fu il\u0259 birlikd\u0259 olur!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ba\u015fqa bir h\u0259disind\u0259 is\u0259 R\u0259sulullah (s.\u0259.s.) biz\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259nl\u0259rimizi g\u00f6st\u0259rir v\u0259 onlardan qorunma\u011f\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir: \u015feytan, n\u0259fs, pis dostlar v\u0259 d\u00fcnyan\u0131n aldad\u0131c\u0131 cazib\u0259si.<\/p>\n<p>N\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz, ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za g\u0259l\u0259n b\u0259lalar\u0131n \u0259sl s\u0259b\u0259bkar\u0131 bu d\u00f6rd d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259n deyilmi?<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259nha bir qar\u0131 varm\u0131\u015f, \u0259ri \u00f6lm\u00fc\u015f, \u00f6vladlar\u0131 da b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb, ayr\u0131l\u0131b getmi\u015f. Qonum-qon\u015fular m\u0259z\u0259mm\u0259t edirl\u0259r:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Bir \u00e7\u0259t\u0259n o\u011ful-u\u015faq b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcn, yem\u0259din, onlara yedirdin, geym\u0259din, onlara geydirdin, atal\u0131-anal\u0131lardan daha firavan, daha b\u0259xt\u0259v\u0259r saxlad\u0131n, birinin d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 k\u0259d\u0259r qondurmad\u0131n, amma indi biri d\u0259 yan\u0131nda deyil ki, hay dey\u0259nd\u0259 hay\u0131na yeti\u015fsin. Niy\u0259 \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131b t\u0259nbeh el\u0259mirs\u0259n, \u201chaqq\u0131m\u0131 qaytar\u0131n\u201d demirs\u0259n?<\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcng\u00fclc\u0259 bir t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcml\u0259 cavab verir qar\u0131:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; M\u0259n onlara borc verm\u0259dim ki&#8230; M\u0259n\u00a0 kims\u0259y\u0259 borc verm\u0259dim, boynuma d\u00fc\u015f\u0259n borc n\u0259ydis\u0259, onu yerin\u0259 yetirdim. Allah m\u0259n\u0259 \u00f6vladlar verdi, m\u0259n d\u0259 Allah\u0131n verdiyi \u00f6vladlar\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fctd\u00fcm. Allah\u0131n boynuma qoydu\u011fu anal\u0131q v\u0259zif\u0259sini yerin\u0259 yetirdim, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6vadlar\u0131ma borc verm\u0259dim ki.. M\u0259n neyl\u0259dims\u0259, Allah qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda borcumu yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn el\u0259dim. Sizd\u0259n d\u0259 bir t\u0259m\u0259nnam yoxdur, kims\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 bir yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 Allah\u0131n r\u0259\u011fb\u0259tini, m\u0259mnuniyy\u0259tini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u00fcn, \u0259g\u0259r uy\u011fundursa, onu qazanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn el\u0259sin. Yoxsa kims\u0259d\u0259n z\u0259rr\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 minn\u0259t q\u0259bul etm\u0259r\u0259m.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Allah-T\u0259ala Qurani-K\u0259rimd\u0259 biz\u0259 bu m\u00f6vzuda bir \u00e7ox d\u0259y\u0259rli t\u00f6vsiy\u0259l\u0259r verib: Allah\u0131n r\u0259ngin\u0259 boyan\u0131n! Allah\u0131n ipin\u0259 sar\u0131l\u0131n! \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, eyni r\u0259ng\u0259 boyanm\u0131\u015flar, eyni ip\u0259 sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar, eyni s\u0259mt\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259lmi\u015fl\u0259r, bir-birini asanl\u0131qla se\u00e7\u0259r v\u0259 asanl\u0131qla da ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u0259rl\u0259r. Eyni ip\u0259 sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar bir-birin\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k ver\u0259r, k\u00f6m\u0259k olarlar. Eyni atmosferd\u0259, eyni iqlimd\u0259 ya\u015fayanlar bir-birinin xeyrini, m\u0259nf\u0259\u0259tini arzulayarlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bizd\u0259n ist\u0259n\u0259n dostluq budur. Bizd\u0259n g\u00f6zl\u0259n\u0259n s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t bir-birimiz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131zl\u0131qd\u0131r. T\u0259m\u0259nna ancaq Allahdan olar. 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