{"id":15450,"date":"2014-04-19T17:12:02","date_gmt":"2014-04-19T12:12:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=15450"},"modified":"2014-04-19T17:12:02","modified_gmt":"2014-04-19T12:12:02","slug":"xosb%c9%99xtliyi-birlikd%c9%99-qazanmaga-calisin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=15450","title":{"rendered":"Xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi birlikd\u0259 qazanma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"bo\u015fanma\"<\/a>Ail\u0259nizi, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fs\u0131z buraxmay\u0131n. Unutmay\u0131n ki, bo\u015fanma q\u0259rar\u0131 \u0259ks\u0259r hallarda xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tirmir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259niz v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131zla birlikd\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi yenid\u0259n qazanma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Bu yaz\u0131m\u0131zda is\u0259 bo\u015fanman\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n deyil, bo\u015fanmamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r ondan b\u0259hs ed\u0259c\u0259yik<\/p>\n

Birinci vacib m\u0259qam<\/p>\n

\u0130ll\u0259rl\u0259 \u0259zab-\u0259ziyy\u0259t hesab\u0131na \u0259ld\u0259 etdikl\u0259rini bir g\u00fcn\u0259, bir saata, bir anl\u0131q s\u0259hv\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 itirm\u0259y\u0259 n\u0259 var ki. Odur ki, h\u0259min \u0259ld\u0259 etdikl\u0259rimizi qazanmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kdiyimiz kimi, qorumaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u0259 \u0259n vacib m\u0259qamlardan biri d\u0259 budur. Bu m\u0259qam evlilik h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za da aiddir. \u018fg\u0259r bir insan qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na bo\u015fanma m\u0259qs\u0259di qoyubsa, he\u00e7 d\u0259 narahat olmas\u0131n – bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r b\u0259han\u0259, fakt, \u201cs\u00fcbut\u201d \u0259ld\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259k. Ail\u0259dir, s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t d\u0259 olar, narahatl\u0131q da. Bunu ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ke\u00e7\u0259k m\u0259tl\u0259b\u0259.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r bir evli \u015f\u0259xsin evlilik h\u0259yat\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 b\u0259zi m\u00fcsb\u0259t v\u0259 ya m\u0259nfi fikirl\u0259ri var. T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin evlilikl\u0259rin\u0259 bir-biril\u0259rinin prizmas\u0131ndan qiym\u0259t verm\u0259l\u0259ri ail\u0259nin m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox vacibdir. Bu, h\u0259m\u00e7inin t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-biril\u0259rini daha yax\u015f\u0131 ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 v\u0259 probleml\u0259r\u0259 daha sa\u011flam fikirl\u0259 yana\u015fmalar\u0131na da k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, bu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-biril\u0259ri haqq\u0131nda m\u0259nfi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259m\u0259yi d\u0259 \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. El\u0259 is\u0259 nec\u0259 olursa-olsun, evliliyiniz\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n da p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259sind\u0259n bax\u0131n. \u00dcst\u0259lik, \u201cM\u0259n h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131 onsuz da tan\u0131y\u0131ram\u201d dey\u0259 qabaqcadan h\u00f6km verm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. \u018fg\u0259r bel\u0259 s\u0259hvl\u0259r\u0259 yol verm\u0259s\u0259niz, inan\u0131n, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 evliliyiniz haqq\u0131nda \u00e7ox \u015fey \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u201cAil\u0259m\u201d jurnal\u0131n\u0131n redaktoru Ayd\u0131n Ucal deyir ki, evliliy\u0259 s\u0259hv qiym\u0259t ver\u0259nl\u0259ri \u0259sas\u0259n iki qrupa ay\u0131rmaq olar:<\/p>\n

1. B\u0259zi c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r evlilikl\u0259rind\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir problemin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. H\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131 bir problemd\u0259n b\u0259hs ets\u0259 d\u0259, onu ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n problem kimi t\u0259qdim etdikl\u0259ri m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin h\u0259llin\u0259 d\u0259 s\u0259y g\u00f6st\u0259rmirl\u0259r. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri h\u0259r hans\u0131 problem ya\u015fay\u0131rsa, dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259f d\u0259 buna \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t verm\u0259li v\u0259 o problemin m\u0259nb\u0259yini axtarma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

2. Evlilikd\u0259 problem ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259nl\u0259r. Onlar \u0259sas\u0259n xo\u015fb\u0259xt deyill\u0259r v\u0259 probleml\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n ir\u0259li g\u0259ldiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r. H\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n d\u0259, bir t\u0259r\u0259f o biri t\u0259r\u0259fin h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 problem ya\u015faya bil\u0259r. Lakin yaln\u0131z qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin s\u0259hvl\u0259rini g\u00f6r\u00fcb m\u0259yus olmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin bu evliliy\u0259 nec\u0259 qiym\u0259t verdiyini anlama\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, burada da problemin m\u0259nb\u0259yini axtarmaq \u00e7ox vacibdir. H\u0259tta laz\u0131m g\u0259ls\u0259, problemin k\u00f6k\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259 d\u0259 axtara bil\u0259rsiniz. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 bu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yana\u015fmaq v\u0259 ittiham\u00e7\u0131 m\u00f6vqeyind\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xaraq, ortaq bir m\u0259xr\u0259c tapmaq evliliyinizin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 vacib ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u0130kinci vacib m\u0259qam<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u0259r bir insan s\u0259hv ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. Ancaq \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 s\u0259hvini ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259k v\u0259 \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmaqd\u0131r. \u201c\u00dczr ist\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259r\u0259m\u201d dem\u0259k is\u0259 z\u0259iflik \u0259lam\u0259tidir. \u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259k bir m\u0259nada da eqoizmd\u0259n xilas olmaqd\u0131r. \u201cAil\u0259m\u201d jurnal\u0131n\u0131n redaktoru deyir ki, \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k z\u0259iflik yox, irad\u0259 \u0259lam\u0259tidir: \u201c\u018fg\u0259r ortada bir s\u0259hv varsa, \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 bu s\u0259hvi d\u00fcz\u0259ltm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r\u201d.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r bir insan ail\u0259d\u0259 probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmaq ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259ki m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 vacibdir. \u018fg\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir problem varsa, bundan h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fin \u201cziyan g\u00f6rm\u0259si\u201d t\u0259biidir. Bu prizmadan baxd\u0131qda, \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacaran adam \u0259slind\u0259 \u00f6z \u0259min-amanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da qorumu\u015f olur. \u00dczr ist\u0259y\u0259rk\u0259n qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin \u00fczr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc q\u0259bul edib-etm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yini d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259m\u0259lisiniz. \u00c7\u00fcnki \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 bu i\u015fd\u0259 t\u0259m\u0259nnas\u0131z davranmaqd\u0131r. \u00dczr ist\u0259m\u0259k yalvarmaq dem\u0259k deyil. Buna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0259hvl\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k \u015f\u0259rtdir. Ancaq qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin bundan sui-istifad\u0259 etm\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259 yol verilm\u0259m\u0259lidir. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, h\u0259m evinizd\u0259ki probleml\u0259rin b\u00f6y\u00fcm\u0259sinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 alar, h\u0259m d\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u0259min-amanl\u0131\u011f\u0131na xidm\u0259t etmi\u015f olars\u0131n\u0131z\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u00dc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc vacib m\u0259qam<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. O kimdir v\u0259 onunla \u0259n \u00e7ox n\u0259l\u0259ri b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz? N\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? N\u0259l\u0259ri birlikd\u0259 etm\u0259k siz\u0259 xo\u015fdur? Onun yoxlu\u011fu sizd\u0259 n\u0259 kimi hissl\u0259r meydana g\u0259tir\u0259rdi? Ayd\u0131n Ucal deyir ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin \u0259sas rollar\u0131ndan biri d\u0259 onlar\u0131n bir-biril\u0259ri il\u0259 dost olma\u011f\u0131 bacarmalar\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cBu rol olmasa, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u00fcnsiyy\u0259ti, s\u0259mimiyy\u0259ti art\u0131rmaq m\u00fcmk\u00fcns\u00fczd\u00fcr. Bu rol, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259, bir \u00e7ox ail\u0259l\u0259r \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evliliyin \u0259n vacib, \u0259n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli t\u0259r\u0259fidir. Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 dost olma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq bu ail\u0259nin m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 \u0259sasd\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u0259n yax\u0131n dostunuz oldu\u011funa inan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, dem\u0259li, sizi xo\u015fb\u0259xt saymaq olar. Yox \u0259g\u0259r, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259misinizs\u0259, yen\u0259 d\u0259 gec deyil. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u0259 v\u0259 ail\u0259niz\u0259 daha \u00e7ox vaxt ay\u0131rmaq v\u0259 bir-birinizin ortaq c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rini k\u0259\u015ff ed\u0259r\u0259k tez-tez bir yerd\u0259 olmaq kifay\u0259tdir\u201d.<\/p>\n

D\u00f6rd\u00fcnc\u00fc vacib m\u0259qam<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 tez-tez \u201cBu saata q\u0259d\u0259r harada idin?\u201d, \u201cBu g\u00fcn kiml\u0259rl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcs\u0259n?\u201d, \u201cNiy\u0259 ev\u0259 vaxt\u0131nda g\u0259lmirs\u0259n?\u201d kimi suallar e\u015fidilir. T\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 bu c\u00fcr suallar verm\u0259si o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 qorxulu deyil. Ancaq suallar m\u00fct\u0259madi olduqda, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259 bir n\u00f6v \u201c\u015f\u00fcbh\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259liyi\u201d hissl\u0259ri ba\u015f qald\u0131r\u0131r. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n inam\u0131n\u0131 itirdiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259f t\u0259dric\u0259n g\u0259rginlik ya\u015fama\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r v\u0259 bu g\u0259rginliyi bu v\u0259 ya ba\u015fqa \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. \u00c7ox vaxt bu suallar\u0131n yerini m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259tl\u0259r d\u0259 tutur. M\u0259hz bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 etirazlar ba\u015flay\u0131r v\u0259 bu etirazlar ail\u0259d\u0259 yeni-yeni m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259sas\u0131n\u0131 qoyur. Bu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi qad\u0131nlarda da \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir. B\u00fct\u00fcn hallarda n\u0259tic\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259ka\u00e7an olmur. Ail\u0259d\u0259 sevgi v\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t aradan qalx\u0131r: \u201cBuna g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 sual ver\u0259rk\u0259n v\u0259 ya m\u00fcnasib\u0259t bildir\u0259rk\u0259n diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir problem varsa, bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259tl\u0259r icad etm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ist\u0259kl\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 t\u0259k qoymaq ist\u0259mirsinizs\u0259, onunla bir yerd\u0259 olmal\u0131 v\u0259 ya m\u00fcxt\u0259lif alternativl\u0259r t\u0259klif etm\u0259lisiniz. Ancaq bu halda siz h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 h\u0259m t\u0259k qoymam\u0131\u015f, h\u0259m d\u0259 ona qar\u015f\u0131 olan etimad\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 qorumu\u015f olars\u0131n\u0131z\u201d.<\/p>\n

Be\u015finci vacib m\u0259qam<\/strong><\/p>\n

Problem ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131, anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q oldu\u011fu m\u0259qamlarda t\u0259kc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc haql\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259yin. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin prizmas\u0131ndan da yana\u015f\u0131n. H\u0259r zaman haql\u0131 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259k, h\u0259r zaman qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi haqs\u0131z g\u00f6rm\u0259k art\u0131q sizin bir insan olaraq haqs\u0131zl\u0131q etm\u0259yinizd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir.<\/p>\n

Alt\u0131nc\u0131 vacib m\u0259qam<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evd\u0259 oldu\u011funuz g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 ail\u0259niz\u0259 n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r vaxt ay\u0131r\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? U\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259n tutub xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131zla birlikd\u0259 g\u0259zm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zm\u0131? M\u00fcasir d\u00f6vrd\u0259 m\u00fcxt\u0259lif probleml\u0259rl\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259\u015fir, \u00e7ox vaxt bizi imtahana \u00e7\u0259k\u0259n bu probleml\u0259r\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 d\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fcz oluruq. Ata-analar\u0131m\u0131za, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131za v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131za qar\u015f\u0131 s\u0259birsizlik g\u00f6st\u0259ririk. Xo\u015f r\u0259ftarlar\u0131m\u0131zla ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259rimizi sevindirm\u0259k \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259, onlar\u0131 probleml\u0259rimiz\u0259 ortaq edirik. Sonra is\u0259 ail\u0259mizd\u0259 h\u00f6km s\u00fcr\u0259n soyuq hava bizi narahat etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Ancaq d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr\u00fck ki, g\u00fcnahkar bizik v\u0259 bu problemi h\u0259ll etm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bir t\u0259b\u0259ss\u00fcm d\u0259 kifay\u0259tdir. H\u0259yat yaln\u0131z i\u015fd\u0259n ibar\u0259t deyil. H\u0259r n\u0259 olursa-olsun ail\u0259niz\u0259, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131za yax\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131za vaxt ay\u0131r\u0131n. Bu, sizin onlar qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda borcunuzdur.<\/p>\n

Yeddinci vacib m\u0259qam<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bo\u015fanma q\u0259rar\u0131 vermisinizs\u0259, bunu t\u0259l\u0259m-t\u0259l\u0259sik icra etm\u0259y\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sm\u0259yin. Ola bil\u0259r ki, h\u0259min d\u00f6vrd\u0259 ya h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z, ya el\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz \u00e7ox \u0259s\u0259bisiniz. Amma bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259r sakitl\u0259\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t bir q\u0259d\u0259r ba\u015fqa g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259r. Unutmay\u0131n, h\u0259yatda s\u0259hvsiz insan yoxdur.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259nizi, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fs\u0131z buraxmay\u0131n. Onu da unutmay\u0131n ki, q\u0259lbinizd\u0259ki \u201cbo\u015flu\u011fu\u201d doldurmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn atd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bu add\u0131m siz\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tirm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259, ail\u0259niz v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131zla birlikd\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi yenid\u0259n qazanma\u011fa \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

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