Min ill\u0259rdir insanlar xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin d\u00fcsturunu axtar\u0131rlar, ona qovu\u015fma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 aray\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 da z\u00f6vq kimidir, h\u0259r insanda eyni ola bilm\u0259z. Tutaq ki, birinin z\u00f6vq\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 olan bir geyim ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n z\u00f6vq\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 deyil. Bu m\u0259nada xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin s\u0259rh\u0259di insanlara, onlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259, t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259, \u0259xlaq\u0131na, m\u0259n\u0259vi \u00e7\u0259kisin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, insan var, v\u0259zif\u0259 kreslosuna o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6yr\u0259\u015fib ki, xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyini onsuz t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr ed\u0259 bilmir. Halbuki o v\u0259zif\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 ona xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tirm\u0259yib. Yaxud qaraj\u0131nda \u00e7oxlu sayda bahal\u0131 ma\u015f\u0131n olmas\u0131n\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin \u0259lam\u0259ti kimi anlayanlar var.<\/p>\n
Adam da var ki, can\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259ll\u0259\u015fdiyi, x\u0259st\u0259 oldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc xo\u015fb\u0259xt saym\u0131r, saya bilmir. D\u0259rmanlardan xilas olmaq, a\u011fr\u0131lardan xilas olmaq, b\u0259lk\u0259, onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck xo\u015fb\u0259xtlikdir. Halbuki bir vaxtlar, b\u0259lk\u0259, o da xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi var-d\u00f6vl\u0259td\u0259, v\u0259zif\u0259d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcrd\u00fc…<\/p>\n
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Qoca tan\u0131y\u0131ram ki, ill\u0259rdir x\u0259st\u0259 yat\u0131r. Onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik bu d\u00fcnyada art\u0131q gerid\u0259 qal\u0131b. Ruhunun b\u0259d\u0259nd\u0259n ayr\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc (a\u011fr\u0131lardan xilas olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn) m\u00fckafat kimi g\u00f6zl\u0259yir.<\/p>\n
Yeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n, bu g\u00fcnl\u0259rd\u0259 Xalq \u015fairi Z\u0259limxan Yaqubun maraql\u0131 bir m\u00fcsahib\u0259sini oxudum. Xalq \u015fairi deyir: \u201cXo\u015fb\u0259xt adam odur ki, ax\u015fam yat\u0131r, s\u0259h\u0259r durmur. A\u011fr\u0131 it \u0259zab\u0131d\u0131r, Allah he\u00e7 k\u0259s\u0259 qism\u0259t el\u0259m\u0259sin\u201d.<\/p>\n
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Bel\u0259 bir fikir d\u0259 var: insanlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu 15-30 ya\u015f aras\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi sevgid\u0259, 30-50 ya\u015f aras\u0131 pulda, 50-70 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda is\u0259 cansa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanlar da var ki, n\u0259 mal d\u0259rdi \u00e7\u0259kirl\u0259r, n\u0259 m\u00fclk d\u0259rdi, n\u0259 d\u0259 v\u0259zif\u0259 d\u0259rdi. Sa\u011flam canlar\u0131, g\u00f6z\u0259l \u00f6vladlar\u0131, ail\u0259l\u0259rini ortabab doland\u0131rmalar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ald\u0131qlar\u0131 maa\u015f, g\u00f6z\u0259l atmosfer\u0259 malik i\u015f yerl\u0259ri onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik dem\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n
Do\u011frudanda, neynir\u0259m o mal\u0131 ki, onu \u0259ld\u0259 saxlamaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn insanlarla b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmada olaca\u011fam?<\/p>\n
Neynir\u0259m o m\u00fclk\u00fc ki, onu tikm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m haram pul b\u00fct\u00fcn h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131 z\u0259hrimar ed\u0259?<\/p>\n
Allah\u0131n verdiyi \u00f6vlad, insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc rahat hiss etdiyi ail\u0259si, azdan-\u00e7oxdan, amma halal yolla qazand\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u201cazcaca a\u015f\u0131m, a\u011fr\u0131maz ba\u015f\u0131m\u201d prinsipi il\u0259 ya\u015fam t\u0259rzi, ara-s\u0131ra x\u0259st\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259ri n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 almasaq, sa\u011flam can\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin deyil, b\u0259s n\u0259yin n\u00fcmun\u0259sidir?<\/p>\n
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Harada olma\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq, bizl\u0259r \u0259traf\u0131m\u0131zdak\u0131 insanlara m\u00fcsb\u0259t emosiya verm\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131y\u0131q. Qoy insanlar bizi g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259ri a\u00e7\u0131ls\u0131n, k\u00f6n\u00fcll\u0259rind\u0259 xo\u015f duy\u011fu ba\u015f qald\u0131rs\u0131n. H\u0259tta \u0259n \u00e7\u0259tin anlarda bel\u0259, insanlar\u0131 ac\u0131lamaqdan, q\u0259lbl\u0259ri q\u0131rmaqdan maksimum \u00e7\u0259kinm\u0259yi bacarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131 bilmir\u0259m, amma m\u0259n\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q etm\u0259yi h\u0259yat t\u0259rzin\u0259 \u00e7evir\u0259n insanlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu xo\u015fb\u0259xt olurlar, xo\u015fb\u0259xtdirl\u0259r. Yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q etm\u0259kd\u0259n al\u0131nan xo\u015f duy\u011fular insana bunu n\u0259sib edir.<\/p>\n
\u0130nsan yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q etdikc\u0259 daim yax\u015f\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259r \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na. \u018fn \u00e7\u0259tin i\u015fi bel\u0259, d\u00fcy\u00fcn\u0259 d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259d\u0259n h\u0259ll olunur. \u0130nanm\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, yax\u015f\u0131 insan hesab etdiyiniz insanlara yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b bu bar\u0259d\u0259 sual verin, onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131na fikir verin.<\/p>\n
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H\u0259tta virtual d\u00fcnyada bel\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 insan olmaq, xo\u015f hissl\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131lama\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u0130nternet d\u0259 bir d\u00fcnyad\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n xasiyy\u0259ti, ke\u00e7irdiyi hissl\u0259r, h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki davran\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan a\u00e7\u0131q-ayd\u0131n hiss olunur. Odur ki, virtual d\u00fcnyada da yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131q t\u0259msil\u00e7isi olma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Sonda yaz\u0131m\u0131 xeyli m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir m\u0259ni d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u0259n bir fikirl\u0259 yekunla\u015fd\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m. Bilmir\u0259m, sizin diqq\u0259tinizi \u00e7\u0259kib ya yox, amma virtual d\u00fcnya m\u0259n\u0259 axir\u0259ti xat\u0131rlad\u0131r. Niy\u0259, nec\u0259? – Bunu izah edim:<\/p>\n
M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ucqar bir k\u0259ndd\u0259 ya\u015fayan, internetin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259y\u0259n bir adam virtual d\u00fcnyan\u0131n olmas\u0131ndan da x\u0259b\u0259rsizdir. Y\u0259qin ki, o adama des\u0259niz ki, \u201cvirtual d\u00fcnya\u201d adl\u0131 bir d\u00fcnya var, orada insanlar s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259\u015fir, d\u0259rdl\u0259\u015fir, c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri m\u00fczakir\u0259 edirl\u0259r, inanmaz. Halbuki, h\u0259min adam\u0131n inanmamas\u0131 bizim g\u00fcnd\u0259lik istifad\u0259\u00e7isi oldu\u011fumuz virtual d\u00fcnyan\u0131n olmamas\u0131 anlam\u0131na g\u0259lmir. G\u0259r\u0259k o inanmayan adam da virtual d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00fczv\u00fc olsun ki, burada ya\u015fananlar\u0131 \u00f6z g\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 g\u00f6rs\u00fcn.<\/p>\n
Axir\u0259t d\u00fcnyas\u0131 da el\u0259dir, biz inansaq da, inanmasaq da el\u0259 bir d\u00fcnya var. Onu g\u00f6rm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn g\u0259r\u0259k \u201c\u00fczv\u00fc olasan\u201d ki (ruha \u00e7evril\u0259s\u0259n) \u00f6z g\u00f6zl\u0259rinl\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n…<\/p>\n
Nicat \u0130ntiqam<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Min ill\u0259rdir insanlar xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin d\u00fcsturunu axtar\u0131rlar, ona qovu\u015fma\u011f\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 aray\u0131rlar. Xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 da z\u00f6vq kimidir, h\u0259r insanda eyni ola bilm\u0259z. Tutaq ki, birinin z\u00f6vq\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 olan bir geyim ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n z\u00f6vq\u00fcn\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 deyil. Bu m\u0259nada xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin s\u0259rh\u0259di insanlara, onlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyag\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259, t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259, \u0259xlaq\u0131na, m\u0259n\u0259vi \u00e7\u0259kisin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, insan var, v\u0259zif\u0259 kreslosuna o […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-16297","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-kos"},"yoast_head":"\n