{"id":18210,"date":"2015-01-24T13:02:49","date_gmt":"2015-01-24T09:02:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=18210"},"modified":"2015-01-24T13:02:49","modified_gmt":"2015-01-24T09:02:49","slug":"g%c9%99linin-azadliq-ist%c9%99yi-v%c9%99-ya-sevgi-niy%c9%99-nifr%c9%99t%c9%99-donur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=18210","title":{"rendered":"G\u0259linin azadl\u0131q ist\u0259yi v\u0259 ya sevgi niy\u0259 nifr\u0259t\u0259 d\u00f6n\u00fcr?"},"content":{"rendered":"<table cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td id=\"newsSpot\" colspan=\"2\"><span class=\"detail-spot\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/toy-g\u0259lin-2015-yeni.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-18212\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/toy-g\u0259lin-2015-yeni-550x365.jpg\" alt=\"toy-g\u0259lin-2015-yeni\" width=\"550\" height=\"365\" \/><\/a>2014-c\u00fc ilin statistikas\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 artmaqdad\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td id=\"newsText\" colspan=\"2\" valign=\"top\">Bel\u0259 ki, \u00f6t\u0259n il \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 t\u0259xmin\u0259n 73 min nikah akt\u0131 ba\u015f tutub v\u0259 on min bo\u015fanma fakt\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. \u018fslind\u0259 bu r\u0259q\u0259m tarixl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 bizim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli g\u00f6st\u0259ricidir. Bir vaxtlar b\u00f6y\u00fck bir f\u0259lak\u0259t kimi qar\u015f\u0131lanan bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131 art\u0131q adil\u0259\u015fib, ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 faci\u0259 hesab edilmir, d\u0259rd say\u0131lm\u0131r. \u018fks\u0259r hallarda is\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar evliliyin ilk ilind\u0259 ba\u015f verir. \u0130ll\u0259r boyunca bir-birini sev\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r evl\u0259ndikd\u0259n bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ay sonra \u201cxasiyy\u0259timiz tutmad\u0131\u201d iddias\u0131 il\u0259 m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edirl\u0259r. Art\u0131q n\u0259yin s\u0259mimi, n\u0259yin yalan oldu\u011funu ara\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa bel\u0259 ehtiyac qalm\u0131r, \u00e7\u00fcnki aradan x\u0259tir-h\u00f6rm\u0259t g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcb, k\u00f6rp\u00fcl\u0259r yand\u0131r\u0131l\u0131b, el\u0259 t\u0259hqirl\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirilib, el\u0259 \u00fczl\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b ki, daha \u00fcz yeri qalmay\u0131b. \u0130ll\u0259rl\u0259 s\u00fcr\u0259n m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ayda alt-\u00fcst olub, toya q\u0259d\u0259r bir-biri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131xan g\u0259ncl\u0259r sanki bunlar deyildil\u0259r, indi g\u00f6rm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 dar\u0131xm\u0131rlar, g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 dar\u0131x\u0131rlar.<strong>\u00a0Q\u0131sqanan analar<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Psixoloqlar bildirirl\u0259r ki, b\u0259z\u0259n ana, \u00fcr\u0259yinin par\u00e7as\u0131 hesab el\u0259diyi o\u011flunu g\u0259lin\u0259 q\u0131sqan\u0131r. T\u0259bii ki, evliliyin ilk aylar\u0131nda o\u011ful \u00f6z h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 daha \u00e7ox vaxt ke\u00e7irm\u0259k, onunla g\u0259zib-dola\u015fmaq, deyib-g\u00fclm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Ana daha \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi\u00a0 ist\u0259diyi vaxt o\u011flunu tapa bilmir v\u0259 yava\u015f-yava\u015f q\u0131sqanma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r ana h\u0259r \u015feyi anlay\u0131\u015fla qar\u015f\u0131lamasa, q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259zi psixoloqlar buna qay\u0131nana sindromu deyirl\u0259r. Qay\u0131nana sindromu t\u0259dric\u0259n g\u0259lin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u0259lir v\u0259 onun h\u0259r i\u015find\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n q\u00fcsurlar \u201c\u00fcz\u0259\u201d \u00e7\u0131xma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r: qab\u0131 t\u0259miz yumay\u0131b, ev-e\u015fiyi y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015fd\u0131rmay\u0131b, s\u0259h\u0259r yuxudan gec oyan\u0131r, saatlarla telefonla dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r&#8230; ittihamlar ist\u0259diyin q\u0259d\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259zi g\u0259linl\u0259r d\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 \u0259r evind\u0259 ik\u0259n qay\u0131nanan\u0131 vahim\u0259li bir varl\u0131q kimi t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edir v\u0259 ir\u0259lic\u0259d\u0259n ona qar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcdafi\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015f\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ilk t\u0259maslarda ist\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n toqqu\u015fmalar n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7arp\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0G\u0259linin azadl\u0131q ist\u0259yi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Son d\u00f6vrd\u0259 d\u0259b hal\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131b: g\u0259lin \u0259r\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n kimi ayr\u0131 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir. \u0130st\u0259mir ki, qay\u0131nana-qay\u0131nata il\u0259 bir evd\u0259 ya\u015fas\u0131n. Y\u0259ni h\u0259r \u015feyi \u00f6z \u00fcr\u0259yinc\u0259 qurmaq, g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. El\u0259 q\u0131zlar da var ki, h\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259lin g\u0259lm\u0259d\u0259n \u015f\u0259rt qoyur: ayr\u0131 ya\u015fayacam, v\u0259ssalam. B\u0259z\u0259n bu azadl\u0131q ist\u0259yi \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259r verir. Q\u0131zlar el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, s\u0259rb\u0259st ya\u015famaq, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 t\u0259zyiq hiss el\u0259m\u0259m\u0259k daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Bel\u0259 q\u0131zlar s\u00f6z g\u00f6t\u00fcrm\u0259z, m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t\u0259 qulaq asmaz, bir i\u015fin\u0259 c\u00fczi d\u0259 olsa irad tutulsa, \u00fcsyan ed\u0259rl\u0259r. Bu xasiyy\u0259td\u0259 q\u0131zlar \u0259rin\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 olma\u011f\u0131 q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r, amma onun anas\u0131na g\u0259lin olmaq ist\u0259mirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>Bizim \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimiz\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, g\u0259lin \u0259n az\u0131 bir ne\u00e7\u0259 il qay\u0131nana yan\u0131nda qalarsa, bu h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l onun \u00f6z\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn faydal\u0131d\u0131r. He\u00e7 bir ana ist\u0259m\u0259z ki, o\u011flunun ail\u0259si da\u011f\u0131ls\u0131n. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259linin m\u00f6hk\u0259m olmas\u0131nda a\u011fsaqqallar\u0131n, a\u011fbir\u00e7\u0259kl\u0259rin rolu \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fckd\u00fcr. Ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n g\u0259lin o oca\u011f\u0131n ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rini g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr, xasiyy\u0259tini m\u0259nims\u0259yir, yolunu, \u0259rkan\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259bul edir. \u018fslind\u0259 qay\u0131nana-qay\u0131nata g\u0259lin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dayaqd\u0131r, g\u00fcv\u0259n yeridir. \u018fg\u0259r \u0259ri bir haqs\u0131zl\u0131q ed\u0259rs\u0259, g\u0259lin qay\u0131nanan\u0131n, qay\u0131natan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 k\u00f6m\u0259k axtarar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0F\u0259dakarl\u0131q xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin anas\u0131d\u0131r<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u0259z\u0259n olur ki, ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri \u0259n adi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bo\u015f yer\u0259 inad edir, hay-k\u00fcy sal\u0131b qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi bezdirir. \u0130lk add\u0131mdan h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 s\u0259rt reaksiya verm\u0259k, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 h\u0259ddini bildirm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaq g\u0259rginliyin artmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. M\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u00fcrl\u0259r ki, evliliyin ilk aylar\u0131nda adi bir \u015feyin ciddi m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259y\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olmas\u0131 o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 nadir hal say\u0131lm\u0131r. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r evliliyin \u0259n az\u0131 ilk \u00fc\u00e7 ilini s\u0131naq m\u00fcdd\u0259ti elan edibl\u0259r v\u0259 statistika da g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n 70 faizind\u0259n \u00e7oxu m\u0259hz bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 ba\u015f verir.<\/p>\n<p>Yersiz q\u0131sqancl\u0131q da ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259lini sars\u0131dan \u0259sas amill\u0259rd\u0259ndir. \u018fg\u0259r g\u0259lin h\u0259r g\u00fcn: \u201c\u0130\u015fd\u0259n niy\u0259 gec g\u0259ldin? Telefonuma niy\u0259 cavab verm\u0259din? Filank\u0259s\u0259 niy\u0259 el\u0259 baxd\u0131n?\u201d kimi suallarla \u0259rinin yaxas\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131rsa, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, q\u0131sa zamanda h\u0259r \u015feyin t\u0259rav\u0259ti d\u0259 it\u0259c\u0259k, dad\u0131 da qa\u00e7acaq. \u018fg\u0259r ki\u015fi ev\u0259 gec g\u0259lirs\u0259, qad\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259r c\u00fcr \u015f\u00fcbh\u0259l\u0259rini, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259l\u0259rini gizl\u0259d\u0259r\u0259k onu f\u0259dakar bir g\u00f6rk\u0259ml\u0259, g\u00fcl\u0259r\u00fczl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lamas\u0131, xidm\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259si ist\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z \u00f6z s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259sini ver\u0259c\u0259k. Apar\u0131lan ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar onu da ortaya \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131r ki, b\u0259z\u0259n g\u0259nc xan\u0131mlar q\u0131sqancl\u0131qlar\u0131 ucbat\u0131ndan qorxduqlar\u0131 sonlu\u011fu \u00f6zl\u0259ri yeti\u015fdirirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0Quda \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130st\u0259r o\u011flan\u0131n, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 g\u0259linin valideynl\u0259ri \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar ki, ail\u0259nin t\u0259m\u0259li m\u00f6hk\u0259m olsun, ortaya h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir naraz\u0131l\u0131q, inciklik d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259sin. Bunun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u0259 onlar s\u0259mimi olmal\u0131, tez-tez g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcb hal-\u0259hval tutmal\u0131, yeni evliliyin nec\u0259 davam etdiyini ciddi n\u0259zar\u0259td\u0259 saxlamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u018fg\u0259r q\u0131z\u0131n anas\u0131 onu qay\u0131nanas\u0131na qar\u015f\u0131 k\u00f6r\u00fckl\u0259yirs\u0259 v\u0259 evd\u0259 hakimiyy\u0259ti \u0259l\u0259 ke\u00e7irm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259limatland\u0131r\u0131rsa, dem\u0259k, qar\u015f\u0131durma qa\u00e7\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Halbuki analar da, atalar da g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 \u00f6rn\u0259k olmal\u0131, s\u0259mimi, t\u0259bii davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 il\u0259 onlar\u0131 bir-birin\u0259 ba\u011flamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyini ist\u0259y\u0259n ana ona qay\u0131nanan\u0131 ana g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 g\u00f6rm\u0259yi tap\u015f\u0131rar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimizin \u00f6rn\u0259yi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bir g\u00fcn R\u0259sulullah\u0131n (s.\u0259.s.) q\u0131z\u0131 Ruqiyy\u0259 atas\u0131na \u0259ri H\u0259zr\u0259ti Osmandan \u015fikay\u0259t edir. Q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n \u015fikay\u0259tini dinl\u0259y\u0259n R\u0259sulullah (s.\u0259.s.) bel\u0259 deyir:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ey q\u0131z\u0131m, \u0259g\u0259r Allah-T\u0259alan\u0131n rizas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 m\u0259nim rizam\u0131 qazanmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, bir an bel\u0259 dayanma, evin\u0259 get, Osmandan \u00fczr dil\u0259, onunla bar\u0131\u015f. Yoxsa, n\u0259 Allah qat\u0131nda, n\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259nim h\u00fczurumda yerin qalar.<\/p>\n<p>R\u0259sulullah q\u0131z\u0131 Ruqiyy\u0259ni \u0259r evin\u0259 qaytar\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, bu c\u00fcr \u0259xlaq \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmu\u015f ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131lmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnki g\u0259lin d\u0259 b\u0259lli, onun h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 da, qay\u0131nata da. Onlar\u0131 birl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n m\u0259n\u0259vi tell\u0259r o q\u0259d\u0259r g\u00fccl\u00fcd\u00fcr ki, bu c\u00fcr ki\u00e7ik inciklikl\u0259r he\u00e7 bir sars\u0131nt\u0131ya s\u0259b\u0259b ola bilm\u0259z. R\u0259sulullah (s.\u0259.s.) \u00f6z q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 da yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131r, onun \u0259ri H\u0259zr\u0259ti Osman\u0131 da. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131na t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir ki, evin\u0259 d\u00f6ns\u00fcn v\u0259 \u0259rind\u0259n \u00fczr ist\u0259yib bar\u0131\u015fs\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>R\u0259sulullah\u0131n (s.\u0259.s.) bu g\u00f6z\u0259l davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u0259srl\u0259r boyunca \u0130slam d\u00fcnyas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00f6rn\u0259k olmu\u015fdur. Amma bu he\u00e7 d\u0259 o dem\u0259k deyil ki, bo\u015fanmaq olmaz. \u018fg\u0259r anla\u015fma m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyils\u0259, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-birinin h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 z\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 d\u00f6nd\u0259rirl\u0259rs\u0259, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, bu halda bo\u015fanmaq do\u011fru se\u00e7imdir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0H\u0259zr\u0259ti \u018fli iki Fatim\u0259 aras\u0131nda<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Biz R\u0259sulullah\u0131n (s.\u0259.s.) h\u0259yat\u0131ndan qay\u0131natan\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131na v\u0259 k\u00fcr\u0259k\u0259nin\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tini g\u00f6rd\u00fck. H\u0259zr\u0259ti \u018flinin (r.a.) h\u0259yat\u0131ndan da o\u011fulun h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 ana aras\u0131ndak\u0131 m\u00f6vqeyin\u0259 q\u0131sa n\u0259z\u0259r salaq. H\u0259zr\u0259ti \u018fli ev i\u015fl\u0259rini h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 Fatim\u0259 il\u0259 anas\u0131 Fatim\u0259nin aras\u0131nda b\u00f6lm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. \u00c7\u00f6l i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 ana bax\u0131r, ev\u0259 su da\u015f\u0131y\u0131rd\u0131; \u0259l d\u0259yirman\u0131nda d\u0259n \u00fcy\u00fctm\u0259k, \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k bi\u015firm\u0259k, x\u00f6r\u0259k haz\u0131rlamaq i\u015fl\u0259ri is\u0259 Fatimeyi Z\u0259hra anam\u0131z\u0131n v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri idi.<\/p>\n<p>H\u0259zr\u0259ti \u018fli v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri el\u0259 b\u00f6lm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc ki, anas\u0131 Fatim\u0259 il\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131 Fatim\u0259 h\u0259r biri \u00f6z i\u015fi il\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olur v\u0259 s\u0259mimi atmosferd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rd\u0131lar. 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Xo\u015fb\u0259xt qay\u0131nana olma\u011f\u0131n yolu layiqli g\u0259lin olmaqdan ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Qay\u0131nana &#8211; anlayan g\u0259lin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn misilsiz bir nem\u0259tdir.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>2014-c\u00fc ilin statistikas\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 s\u00fcr\u0259tl\u0259 artmaqdad\u0131r.\u00a0 Bel\u0259 ki, \u00f6t\u0259n il \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 t\u0259xmin\u0259n 73 min nikah akt\u0131 ba\u015f tutub v\u0259 on min bo\u015fanma fakt\u0131 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b. \u018fslind\u0259 bu r\u0259q\u0259m tarixl\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259d\u0259 bizim \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli g\u00f6st\u0259ricidir. 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