{"id":18236,"date":"2015-01-28T12:53:40","date_gmt":"2015-01-28T08:53:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=18236"},"modified":"2015-01-28T12:53:40","modified_gmt":"2015-01-28T08:53:40","slug":"ail%c9%99-insan-h%c9%99yatinin-t%c9%99nziml%c9%99yicisidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=18236","title":{"rendered":"Ail\u0259 insan h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259nziml\u0259yicisidir"},"content":{"rendered":"<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><a href=\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Ail\u0259-valideyn-ata-ana.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6919\" src=\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Ail\u0259-valideyn-ata-ana.jpg\" alt=\"Ail\u0259 \" width=\"218\" height=\"231\" \/><\/a>S\u0259di \u015eirazinin \u201cG\u00fcl\u00fcstan\u201d kitab\u0131nda \u00e7ox ibr\u0259tli bir hekay\u0259 var. H\u0259min hekay\u0259nin q\u0131sa m\u0259zmununu sizl\u0259rl\u0259 payla\u015f\u0131r\u0131q:<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Bir g\u00fcn yolum bazara d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015fd\u00fc. Bir usta diqq\u0259timi c\u0259lb el\u0259di, \u00fcz\u00fcnd\u0259n, g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n f\u0259r\u0259h hissi yay\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131, o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yirdi ki, deyirdin, b\u0259s d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l i\u015fi onun i\u015fidir. \u00c7\u0259kicl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yirdi, h\u0259r m\u0131xa birc\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 endirirdi \u00e7\u0259kici. \u00c7\u0259kic d\u0259, m\u0131x da onun s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u201cbax\u0131rd\u0131\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Aradan bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ay ke\u00e7\u0259nd\u0259n sonra yen\u0259 h\u0259min bazara getmi\u015fdim v\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcm ist\u0259r-ist\u0259m\u0259z o ustan\u0131 axtard\u0131. Bu d\u0259f\u0259 n\u0259 g\u00f6rs\u0259m yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r? &#8211; H\u0259min usta oturub, \u00fcz-g\u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259n d\u0259 z\u0259h\u0259r-z\u0259hrimar ya\u011f\u0131r, \u00e7\u0259kici bir \u0259lind\u0259ki ayaqqab\u0131ya, bir d\u0259 barma\u011f\u0131na vurur. Barma\u011f\u0131n\u0131n qan\u0131 ayaqqab\u0131ya bula\u015fm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131b soru\u015fdum:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Qarda\u015f, bir ne\u00e7\u0259 ay \u0259vv\u0259l bu bazarda m\u0259n s\u0259nin nec\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259diyini g\u00f6r\u00fcb, \u00fcr\u0259yimd\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 qibt\u0259 el\u0259mi\u015fdim, demi\u015fdim ki, bu insan\u0131n y\u0259qin he\u00e7 bir d\u0259rdi, a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 yoxdur. Amma bug\u00fcnk\u00fc hal\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 m\u0259\u0259tt\u0259l qald\u0131m. Bu d\u0259yi\u015fikliyin s\u0259b\u0259bini s\u00f6yl\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259nmi?<\/p>\n<p>Pin\u0259\u00e7i m\u0259nim bu sual\u0131ma b\u0259ndmi\u015f kimi g\u00f6zl\u0259rind\u0259n ya\u015f axma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131, \u0259lind\u0259ki \u00e7\u0259kici bir t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 qoyub, d\u0259rind\u0259n k\u00f6ks \u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc v\u0259 dedi:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Do\u011fru deyirs\u0259n, 7 il idi ki, m\u0259n h\u0259r g\u00fcn i\u015fimi qurtaranda evim\u0259 getmirdim, bir qu\u015f kimi u\u00e7urdum, \u00e7\u00fcnki bilirdim ki, xan\u0131m\u0131m qap\u0131da dayan\u0131b, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u0259nim yoluma dikib. \u0130\u015fl\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259kl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yirdim, bilirdim ki, vurdu\u011fum h\u0259r \u00e7\u0259kicl\u0259 ail\u0259mizin bir qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131, bir problemi h\u0259ll olunur. \u00c7ox xo\u015fb\u0259xt idim, evd\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 il\u0259, n\u0259vazi\u015fl\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259 olunmu\u015fdum.<\/p>\n<p>Biz bir-birimizi \u00e7ox sevirdik, amma son aylarda n\u0259 oldusa, aram\u0131za s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259t girdi, \u0259n ki\u00e7ik \u015fey \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 bir-birimizd\u0259n incim\u0259y\u0259, k\u00fcsm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131q. Bir g\u00fcn d\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m qalx\u0131b bo\u011f\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 y\u0131\u011fd\u0131 v\u0259 atas\u0131 evin\u0259 getdi. M\u0259n d\u0259 o g\u00fcnd\u0259n b\u0259ri bu hala d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f\u0259m.<\/p>\n<p>Barma\u011f\u0131m\u0131 di\u015fl\u0259dim v\u0259 ail\u0259nin insan \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r m\u00fch\u00fcm nem\u0259t oldu\u011funu bir daha anlad\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Y\u0259qin ki, oxucular\u0131m\u0131z s\u00f6hb\u0259tin ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131ndan getdiyini anlad\u0131lar. El\u0259dir ki, var.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cS\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259tsiz ail\u0259 olmur\u201d deyirl\u0259r. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 do\u011frudur, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 do\u011fru deyil. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259tin olub-olmamas\u0131nda deyil, s\u00f6z-s\u00f6hb\u0259tin hans\u0131 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259, hans\u0131 s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 olmas\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259z\u0259n \u0259n s\u0259mimi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 fikir ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olur. Biri bir s\u00f6z deyir, o birisi qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131x\u0131r. \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259, m\u00fczakir\u0259 gedir, sonra b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcb m\u00fcbahis\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evrilir, daha sonra inciklik h\u0259ddin\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ail\u0259dir d\u0259, bunlar olmasa olmaz ki. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259d\u0259, m\u00fcbahis\u0259d\u0259 v\u0259 ya inciklikd\u0259 deyil, bar\u0131\u015f\u0131qdad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Lap tutaq ki, s\u0259n haql\u0131san, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f \u00f6z israr\u0131nda do\u011fru deyil. Amma neyl\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n, o da el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, s\u00f6yl\u0259diyind\u0259 s\u0259mimidir, xeyirli bildiyinin \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u0259 durub g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft\u0259 getm\u0259k ist\u0259mir. Bel\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr, s\u0259n d\u0259 \u0259mins\u0259n ki, yan\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Dart\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r \u00f6n\u0259mli deyils\u0259, niy\u0259 g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft el\u0259mirs\u0259n ki? Qoy onun dediyi olsun, lap bir az da z\u0259r\u0259riniz \u00e7\u0131xs\u0131n, qoy o dediyini yeritsin v\u0259 yan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlay\u0131b, \u00fczr ist\u0259sin.<\/p>\n<p>Dart\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z m\u00f6vzu n\u0259 olur-olsun, sizin birc\u0259 g\u00fcn k\u00fcsk\u00fcn qalma\u011f\u0131n\u0131za d\u0259ym\u0259z. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259k ki\u00e7ik m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 israr edib, b\u00f6y\u00fck nem\u0259tl\u0259ri uduzmayasan. Ail\u0259d\u0259 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck nem\u0259t n\u0259dir ki&#8230; s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t, xo\u015f sif\u0259t, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 ehtiram. Bunlar aradan qalxandan sonra s\u0259nin dediyin olsa, n\u0259 f\u0259rqi var, onun dediyi olsa, n\u0259 faydas\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn niy\u0259 dart\u0131\u015f\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z, dart\u0131\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z m\u00f6vzu sizin dart\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131n\u0131za d\u0259y\u0259rmi?<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>S\u0259h\u0259r qap\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131b evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xm\u0131\u015fd\u0131n. \u0130ndi yor\u011fun-ar\u011f\u0131n o qap\u0131dan i\u00e7\u0259ri ke\u00e7irs\u0259n. O q\u0259d\u0259r yor\u011funsan ki, \u0259yilib ayaqqab\u0131n\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 a\u00e7ma\u011fa da \u0259rinirs\u0259n. \u018fvv\u0259lc\u0259, sol aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131n burnu il\u0259 sa\u011f ayaqqab\u0131n\u0131, sonra da sa\u011f aya\u011f\u0131nla sol ayaqqab\u0131n\u0131 dart\u0131b \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131rsan. Ke\u00e7ib kresloda \u00f6z yerin\u0259 yayxan\u0131r, pultu g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcb kanallar aras\u0131nda g\u0259zi\u015firs\u0259n. \u0130st\u0259yirs\u0259n \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131b \u00e7ay ist\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n, amma susursan. N\u0259 vaxta q\u0259d\u0259r?<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Atan\u0131n \u00f6z \u00f6vlad\u0131ndan \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259sini g\u00f6rm\u00fcs\u00fcn\u00fczm\u00fc? \u00dcmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 nec\u0259 bax\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z? Sizi bilmir\u0259m, m\u0259n\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, kim\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 haqs\u0131zl\u0131q etmis\u0259ns\u0259, ondan \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fckd\u00fcr, \u0259rd\u0259mdir. Lap \u00f6vlad\u0131n olsun, do\u011fmaca n\u0259v\u0259n olsun, \u0259g\u0259r s\u00f6z verib yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259 bilm\u0259mis\u0259ns\u0259, \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259k \u0259n do\u011fru t\u0259rbiy\u0259 yoludur. \u0130nsan\u0131n b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fcy\u00fc \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7\u0259km\u0259kl\u0259, q\u00fcrurla deyil, laz\u0131m g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 \u00fczr ist\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>S\u0259n haql\u0131san, s\u0259n do\u011frusan, haql\u0131 oldu\u011funu bil\u0259-bil\u0259 d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 s\u00f6z ke\u00e7ir\u0259 bilmirs\u0259n. Noolar, s\u0259n g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft el\u0259, onun yalan\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259sdiql\u0259m\u0259, h\u0259r k\u0259s \u00f6z bildiyind\u0259 qals\u0131n. Amma n\u0259 olur olsun, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r korlanmas\u0131n. Bu g\u00fcn olmasa da, sabah h\u0259r \u015fey ortaya \u00e7\u0131xacaq. Qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f n\u00f6qt\u0259-verg\u00fcl\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259nin haql\u0131 oldu\u011funu \u00f6yr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 haql\u0131 ola-ola, bu c\u00fcr f\u0259dakar add\u0131m atd\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 a\u00e7\u0131q s\u00f6yl\u0259m\u0259s\u0259 bel\u0259 \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 minn\u0259tdar olacaq.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259m\u0259nnal\u0131 olmaq f\u0259lak\u0259tdir. Haql\u0131 olmaq m\u00fch\u00fcm m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259dir, amma haql\u0131 oldu\u011fun halda bel\u0259 \u00f6z haqq\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 soxmaq da do\u011fru deyil. Allah-T\u0259ala h\u0259r birimiz\u0259 irad\u0259 verib, h\u0259r k\u0259s bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131 \u00f6z a\u011fl\u0131n\u0131n i\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcb anlay\u0131r. Dem\u0259k, h\u0259r k\u0259sd\u0259n eyni \u015feyi g\u00f6zl\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259zs\u0259n. Do\u011frudur, s\u0259n \u00f6m\u00fcr-g\u00fcn yolda\u015f\u0131 deyib se\u00e7diyin bu insandan \u00e7ox \u015fey umursan, amma neyl\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n, b\u0259z\u0259n umdu\u011fun, ist\u0259diyin olmur.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ail\u0259 insan h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259nziml\u0259yicisidir. Adam var, hava qaralanda p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259d\u0259n bay\u0131ra bax\u0131b \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 \u201cyen\u0259 o xarabaya ged\u0259c\u0259m\u201d deyir, adam da var, i\u015fini qurtarar-qurtarmaz evind\u0259n ba\u015fqa he\u00e7 n\u0259yi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcr, bir an \u00f6nc\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc ev\u0259 yetirm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Balaca, dar m\u0259nzill\u0259r var ki, orda k\u00f6n\u00fcl rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik var, bu ba\u015f\u0131ndan baxanda o ba\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259y\u0259n saraylar var ki, q\u0259bir kimi dard\u0131r, i\u00e7in\u0259 girdiyin andan \u00fcr\u0259yin s\u0131x\u0131lma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Dinimiz biz\u0259 xeyir i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 yar\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131 t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir. K\u00fcs\u00fcl\u00fc ik\u0259n bar\u0131\u015fma\u011fa c\u0259hd g\u00f6st\u0259rm\u0259k, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, xeyir i\u015fdir. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259vaz\u00f6kar davranmaq daha xeyirlidir. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz buyurur ki, rast g\u0259l\u0259n iki adamdan ki\u00e7iyin birinci salam verm\u0259si \u0259d\u0259bdir, b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u00fcn salam verm\u0259si is\u0259 \u0259rd\u0259mdir, y\u0259ni b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fckd\u00fcr. El\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fck ki, incikliyin aradan qald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 m\u00f6vzusunda bu misal \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fc, \u00f6rn\u0259k say\u0131la bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u018fr-arvad incikliyi b\u00fct\u00fcn d\u00f6vrl\u0259rin \u0259n aktual probleml\u0259rind\u0259n olmu\u015fdur. Amma bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin \u0259n g\u00f6z\u0259l h\u0259llini Allah-T\u0259ala Qurani-K\u0259rimd\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rmi\u015fdir. Quran m\u0259ntiqin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 qad\u0131n \u00f6z \u0259rin\u0259 Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259tidir. El\u0259 \u0259r d\u0259 \u00f6z h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na \u0259man\u0259tdir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 bu n\u00f6qt\u0259d\u0259n yax\u0131nla\u015fanda i\u015fin h\u0259llinin n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r asan oldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u0259n. Dem\u0259k, ail\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259si Allah-T\u0259alan\u0131n ist\u0259diyi bir m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259dir v\u0259 bu m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259nin sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na, rifah\u0131na xidm\u0259t etm\u0259k Allah-T\u0259alan\u0131 m\u0259mnun ed\u0259r. \u0130nan\u0131n ki, \u0259srl\u0259r boyunca \u0130slam al\u0259mind\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259sinin m\u00f6hk\u0259m t\u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 dayanmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259min ed\u0259n \u0259sas amil d\u0259 el\u0259 bu h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u018fg\u0259r s\u0259n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcns\u0259n ki, Allah\u0131n s\u0259n\u0259 \u0259man\u0259t kimi verdiyi bu qad\u0131na g\u00f6r\u0259 Allah qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hesab ver\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n, he\u00e7 vaxt ona k\u0259m g\u00f6zl\u0259 baxmazsan, niy\u0259? &#8211; \u00c7\u00fcnki \u0259man\u0259t\u0259 k\u0259m baxmaq el\u0259 \u0259man\u0259t Sahibin\u0259 k\u0259m baxmaqd\u0131r. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz bir h\u0259disi-\u015f\u0259rifl\u0259rind\u0259 buyurur ki, sizin \u0259n xeyirliniz \u00f6z ail\u0259si \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn xeyirli olan\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r. Y\u0259ni xo\u015fb\u0259xt bir m\u00fcs\u0259lman ail\u0259si xeyir, b\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t yuvas\u0131 kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirilir dinimizd\u0259. T\u0259bii ki, bu c\u00fcr sa\u011flam t\u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulmu\u015f bir ail\u0259 yuvas\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259r ki\u00e7ik inciklik, naraz\u0131l\u0131q silk\u0259l\u0259y\u0259, laxlada bilm\u0259z.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, ail\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259sinin t\u0259m\u0259lind\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin \u00f6z h\u00fcququnu bilm\u0259m\u0259si ger\u00e7\u0259yi dayan\u0131r. Do\u011frudur, ail\u0259d\u0259 konkret v\u0259zif\u0259 b\u00f6lg\u00fcs\u00fc yoxdur, kimin hans\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259ri yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259si haqq\u0131nda r\u0259smi s\u0259n\u0259d imzalanm\u0131r, amma minillik ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131ndan g\u0259l\u0259n \u00e7ox g\u00f6z\u0259l normalar\u0131m\u0131z var. Ail\u0259nin ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lamaq, y\u0259ni \u00e7\u00f6ld\u0259n i\u00e7\u0259ri g\u0259tirm\u0259k ki\u015finin borcudur. Ail\u0259 daxilind\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi yerb\u0259yer el\u0259m\u0259k is\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259zif\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n<p>Siz i\u015fd\u0259n yor\u011fun g\u0259lmisiniz, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, k\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fczd\u0259n ke\u00e7\u0259r ki, xo\u015f \u00fczl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131b, h\u0259r c\u00fcr qay\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259siniz. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, divana \u0259yl\u0259\u015f\u0259n kimi, \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259, \u00e7ay, ard\u0131nca da yem\u0259yiniz g\u0259l\u0259. Bu, s\u0259mimi ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n adi m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ndir. Amma bunlar olmasa bel\u0259, g\u0259r\u0259k inciklik, naraz\u0131l\u0131q \u00e7\u0131xarmayas\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>B\u0259sit bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn bu q\u0259d\u0259r incikliy\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rmi? \u018fmin ol ki, a\u00e7\u0131b dem\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259 o s\u0259nd\u0259n d\u0259 p\u0259ri\u015fand\u0131r. B\u00f6y\u00fckl\u00fck ba\u011f\u0131\u015flama\u011f\u0131 bacarmaqd\u0131r. Bir d\u0259 ki ortada ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmayacaq n\u0259 var ki? S\u0259n ona ba\u011fl\u0131san, o s\u0259n\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. A\u011fz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n dad\u0131n\u0131 qa\u00e7\u0131rmay\u0131n. 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