{"id":18924,"date":"2015-04-06T08:00:29","date_gmt":"2015-04-06T03:00:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=18924"},"modified":"2015-04-06T09:28:33","modified_gmt":"2015-04-06T04:28:33","slug":"evl%c9%99n%c9%99n-gununun-sabahi-qoymayin-dunyani-adil%c9%99sm%c9%99y%c9%99","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=18924","title":{"rendered":"Evl\u0259n\u0259n g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn sabah\u0131, qoymay\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131 adil\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\n\n\n
\"sevgi<\/a>Sevgi dediyin dinamik duy\u011fudur, ya\u015fla, h\u0259yat t\u0259rzi il\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir, r\u0259ngd\u0259n-r\u0259ng\u0259, daddan-dada \u00e7evrilir. 17 ya\u015f\u0131n sevgisi n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r alovlu, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7\u0131l\u011f\u0131nd\u0131rsa, 57 ya\u015f\u0131n sevgisi d\u0259 o q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259rav\u0259tli, dol\u011fun olur. Bir n\u00f6v ip\u0259kqurdu kimidir: toxumundan \u00e7\u0131x\u0131b qurd olur, sonra barama, sonra k\u0259p\u0259n\u0259k… Bel\u0259c\u0259, ya\u015fla h\u0259r \u015fey d\u0259yi\u015fir, yenil\u0259nir, yeni anlam, yeni mahiyy\u0259t qazan\u0131r.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n
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G\u00f6rk\u0259mli \u015fairimiz M\u0259mm\u0259d Araz\u0131n bel\u0259 bir s\u00f6z\u00fc var: \u201c\u00dcr\u0259y\u0259 girm\u0259yi bacarmaq azd\u0131r, \u00dcr\u0259kd\u0259 qalma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq g\u0259r\u0259k\u201d. Bu misralar sevgi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri \u0259ks etdirir, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox aktual s\u0259sl\u0259nir. Aylarla, ill\u0259rl\u0259 bir-birinin yolunu g\u00f6zl\u0259yib, bir-birin\u0259 heyran k\u0259sil\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r evliliyin bir ilini arxada qoymam\u0131\u015f m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcz tuturlar. Bu, d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda art\u0131q adil\u0259\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259 olan ac\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259rimizd\u0259n biridir. Bir zamanlar bir ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 bir elin f\u0259lak\u0259ti hesab olunurdu, indi is\u0259 adi, s\u0131radan bir hadis\u0259 kimi qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n d\u00fcnyada h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z da, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz d\u0259, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir v\u0259 t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, bu d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 h\u0259r m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 xo\u015f s\u00fcrprizl\u0259r v\u0259d el\u0259mir. Bir vaxtlar daha \u00e7ox sevm\u0259d\u0259n, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti il\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259rdil\u0259r, amma bo\u015fanmalar nadir hallarda ba\u015f verirdi, indi is\u0259 daha \u00e7ox sev\u0259r\u0259k, g\u0259zib-dola\u015faraq, bir-birin\u0259 isni\u015f\u0259r\u0259k ail\u0259 qururlar, amma t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, bo\u015fanmalar da ilb\u0259il art\u0131r. N\u0259 olub biz\u0259? Sevm\u0259yi bilmirik, yoxsa? Ya sev\u0259nd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndir\u0259 bilmirik? Yoxsa sevgi dediyin t\u0259m\u0259nnadan ba\u015fqa bir \u015fey deyil?.. S\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lif, talel\u0259r f\u0259rqli-f\u0259rqli. Amma n\u0259 deyirsiniz deyin, ail\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259l\u0259rinin getdikc\u0259 \u00f6z m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyini, \u00f6z davaml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itirm\u0259si biz\u0259 xo\u015f \u015feyl\u0259r v\u0259d el\u0259mir. H\u0259r bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 – qala dem\u0259kdir, ail\u0259miz al\u0131nmaz qalam\u0131zd\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r mentalitet deyil\u0259n bir \u015fey varsa v\u0259 biz buna inan\u0131r\u0131qsa, \u0259min olun ki, Az\u0259rbaycan mentalitetinin ba\u015f\u0131nda ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri g\u0259lir. H\u0259r zaman bel\u0259 olub ki, k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 aciz, yaz\u0131q g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi ail\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259ti g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 kims\u0259d\u0259n geri qalmay\u0131b v\u0259 se\u00e7im olmayanda \u00f6lm\u0259yi d\u0259, \u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259yi d\u0259 bacar\u0131b. Bizim \u00f6l\u00fcb-\u00f6ld\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259 b\u0259ra\u0259t qazand\u0131rmaq kimi bir niyy\u0259timiz yoxdur, amma h\u0259qiq\u0259t budur ki, ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri, daha do\u011frusu, ail\u0259 m\u0259hr\u0259miyy\u0259ti h\u0259yat q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259rli, uca tutulub.<\/p>\n

Az\u0259rbaycan klassik \u015e\u0259rq m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tini t\u0259msil etdiyind\u0259n burada ail\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si h\u0259r zaman \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r bir m\u0259suliyy\u0259t kimi anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131b. Y\u0259ni ail\u0259 qurursansa, art\u0131q t\u0259k \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yox, \u00f6m\u00fcr-g\u00fcn yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n v\u0259 h\u0259tta onun qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 daha \u00f6nd\u0259 tutacaqsan. Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259sinin t\u0259m\u0259l daya\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r zaman f\u0259dakarl\u0131q olub. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsinizmi, ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n g\u0259lin t\u0259kc\u0259 \u0259rinin deyil, onun ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n da, varsa, baba-n\u0259n\u0259sinin d\u0259, qarda\u015f-bac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n da naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259li, bir n\u00f6v o ail\u0259nin atmosferin\u0259 gir\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox f\u0259dakarl\u0131qlara qatlanmal\u0131 olub. \u00c7\u0259tin deyilmi? – \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, \u00e7\u0259tindir, amma aradak\u0131 sevgi, x\u0259tir-h\u00f6rm\u0259t, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin xeyir-duas\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri, a\u011fr\u0131-ac\u0131lar\u0131 bir andaca unutdura bilirdi.<\/p>\n

Q\u0259rbd\u0259 is\u0259 ail\u0259 daha \u00e7ox azadl\u0131q, rahatl\u0131q anlam\u0131na g\u0259lib v\u0259 biz bu g\u00fcn q\u0259rbl\u0259\u015fm\u0259 yolunu tutmu\u015fuq. Bu yol ilk bax\u0131\u015fdan \u00e7ox rahat, asan g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, amma bir q\u0259d\u0259r yuxar\u0131da dediyimiz kimi bir \u00e7ox hallarda da ac\u0131 sonluqla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir. Q\u0259rib\u0259 buras\u0131ndad\u0131r ki, art\u0131q ba\u015fanma \u00e7oxlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 ac\u0131 sonluq anlam\u0131na da g\u0259lmir. Q\u0131sa m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey d\u0259yi\u015fir v\u0259 yola davam, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, o olmas\u0131n, bu olsun…<\/p>\n

Statistika g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bu g\u00fcn Amerikada qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 41 faizi nikahdank\u0259nar birg\u0259lik ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, y\u0259ni onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259, \u00f6vlad sahibi olmaq duy\u011fusu deyil, sad\u0259c\u0259, h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 kef i\u00e7ind\u0259 ya\u015famaq daha g\u0259r\u0259klidir. Demokratiyan\u0131n be\u015fiyi olan Avropada da m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 qorxuncdur.<\/p>\n

T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bizd\u0259 d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t getdikc\u0259 arzuolunmaz x\u0259tt\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r. Siz\u0259 zarafat g\u0259lm\u0259sin, son ill\u0259rin statistik g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 10 faizi ke\u00e7ib.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. T\u0259bii ki, bu m\u00f6vzuda dan\u0131\u015fanda, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259, a\u011fl\u0131m\u0131za iqtisadi probleml\u0259r v\u0259 onlar\u0131n t\u00f6r\u0259tdiyi f\u0259sadlar g\u0259lir. B\u0259li, bu amil \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcmd\u00fcr, amma h\u0259r \u015fey deyil, h\u0259lledici deyil. \u018fg\u0259r ba\u015fqa c\u0259bh\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259nziml\u0259ns\u0259, bu sah\u0259d\u0259ki bo\u015flu\u011fu birt\u0259h\u0259r kompensasiya edib, \u00f6t\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcrm\u0259k olar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 buras\u0131ndad\u0131r ki, iqtisadi s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131larla yana\u015f\u0131, dig\u0259r m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n artmas\u0131nda az rol oynam\u0131r.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nc\u0259, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin psixoloji t\u0259r\u0259fin\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r salmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu bir ger\u00e7\u0259kdir ki, son d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r. Evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131rl\u0131q t\u0259kc\u0259 cinsi yetkinlik dem\u0259k deyil, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tdir, yeni h\u0259yat ritmidir, h\u0259r \u015feyini payla\u015fmaqd\u0131r, \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n da qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, probleml\u0259rini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259kdir. \u018fg\u0259r g\u0259ncl\u0259r bunu q\u0259bul el\u0259mirl\u0259rs\u0259, dem\u0259k, evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r. Dinimiz evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bir-biri il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259rini, yax\u0131ndan tan\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259r \u015feyi ir\u0259lic\u0259d\u0259n m\u00fczakir\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k, v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259ri, h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 b\u00f6lm\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir. Ad\u0259t\u0259n, o ail\u0259l\u0259r sa\u011flam olur ki, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r \u00f6z h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 bilirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri \u00f6z v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259dikd\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r getdikc\u0259 g\u0259rginl\u0259\u015fir, t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259r alt-\u00fcst olur v\u0259 ac\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131lmaz hala g\u0259lir. Sevm\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fck nem\u0259tdir, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc, qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259tini, s\u00fcfr\u0259ni payla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanla bir-birini sevm\u0259k, onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131xmaq g\u00f6z\u0259ldir. Amma sevgi g\u00f6zl\u0259ri kor ed\u0259nd\u0259 f\u0259lak\u0259tin anas\u0131 olur. Bel\u0259 ki, sevgi reall\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc p\u0259rd\u0259l\u0259yirs\u0259, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-birini oldu\u011fu kimi g\u00f6r\u0259 bilmirl\u0259rs\u0259, bel\u0259 sevginin \u00f6mr\u00fc d\u0259 uzun olmur. Sevm\u0259k h\u0259m d\u0259 f\u0259dakarl\u0131qd\u0131r, sevdiyinin yolunda c\u0259faya qatlanmaqd\u0131r. Amma ilk add\u0131mdaca qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n problemd\u0259n qorxub geri \u00e7\u0259kilirs\u0259ns\u0259, bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin uzun s\u00fcrm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yi b\u0259lli olur. Sevm\u0259k h\u0259m d\u0259 ummaqd\u0131r. Umulan olmayanda sevgi d\u0259 \u00f6z t\u0259rav\u0259tini, g\u00f6z\u0259lliyini saxlaya bilmir.<\/p>\n

M\u00f6vzu il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdik v\u0259 onlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini diqq\u0259tiniz\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q.<\/p>\n

T\u0259kc\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 deyil, h\u0259r hans\u0131 m\u00f6vzuda insanlar\u0131 iki qism\u0259 b\u00f6lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr: \u018fli \u00e7atan, h\u00f6km\u00fc ke\u00e7\u0259n h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 \u201cm\u0259nimdir\u201d dey\u0259n, y\u0259ni sahibl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259r, bir d\u0259 \u0259lind\u0259, h\u00f6km\u00fc alt\u0131nda olan h\u0259r \u015feyi Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259ti bil\u0259nl\u0259r. Sad\u0259c\u0259, bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 insanlar\u0131 bir-birind\u0259n ay\u0131rmaq, daha yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131maq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yet\u0259rlidir. B\u0259li, bu d\u00fcnyada biz\u0259 verilmi\u015f h\u0259r \u015fey Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259tidir. Uca Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz H\u0259zr\u0259ti M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d (s.\u0259.s.) d\u0259 Vida X\u00fctb\u0259sind\u0259: \u201cEy ki\u015fil\u0259r, siz qad\u0131nlar\u0131 Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259ti olaraq al\u0131b, \u00f6z nikah\u0131n\u0131za q\u0259bul etdiniz\u201d,- buyurmu\u015fdur. Ail\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259sinin ciddiliyin\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 is\u0259 \u201cSiz evl\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k dininizi tamamlam\u0131\u015f olursunuz\u201d deyilm\u0259kd\u0259dir. Ail\u0259 insan fitr\u0259tinin ehtiyac\u0131d\u0131r, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r ail\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 bir-birini tamamlay\u0131r, bir-biri il\u0259 m\u0259mnun olur, rahatl\u0131q tap\u0131rlar. Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri ciddi olma\u011f\u0131 sevir ki, t\u0259rav\u0259tini, \u015fuxlu\u011funu, g\u00f6z\u0259lliyini itirm\u0259sin. B\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n biri s\u00f6yl\u0259yib ki, \u0259n qal\u0131n p\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n yax\u0131n adamlar aras\u0131nda olmal\u0131d\u0131r, yol yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 k\u00fcs\u00fc\u015f\u0259rs\u0259n, uzaqba\u015f\u0131 yolu s\u00fckut i\u00e7ind\u0259 ged\u0259rs\u0259n; i\u015f yolda\u015f\u0131nla k\u00fcs\u00fc\u015f\u0259rs\u0259n, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 yaz-pozu il\u0259 qatarsan; qon\u015fu il\u0259 k\u00fcs\u00fc\u015f\u0259rs\u0259n, uzaqba\u015f\u0131 o t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 baxmazsan, amma ail\u0259d\u0259n k\u00fcsm\u0259k \u00e7ox d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli olur, bel\u0259 ki, evin i\u00e7ind\u0259 hara baxsan, o var.<\/p>\n

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Yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 M\u0259mm\u0259d Araz\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fd\u0131q, M\u0259mm\u0259d \u0130smay\u0131l\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 tamamlamaq ist\u0259yirik:<\/p>\n

Evl\u0259n\u0259n g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn sabah\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc<\/p>\n

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