{"id":2061,"date":"2013-05-09T21:50:07","date_gmt":"2013-05-09T16:50:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=2061"},"modified":"2020-02-17T16:30:48","modified_gmt":"2020-02-17T12:30:48","slug":"qocalar-evind%c9%99n-ail%c9%99y%c9%99-qayitmaq-yenid%c9%99n-dogulmaq-kimidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/?p=2061","title":{"rendered":"\u201cQocalar evind\u0259n ail\u0259y\u0259 qay\u0131tmaq yenid\u0259n do\u011fulmaq kimidir\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

– Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131n, L\u0259tif\u0259 S\u0259f\u0259rovan\u0131 nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m? <\/strong><\/span>
\n – Siz onun o\u011flusunuz? <\/strong><\/span>
\n – Yox, \u00f6z\u00fc z\u0259ng edib \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131b. Xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 g\u0259lmi\u015fdim… <\/strong><\/span>
\n – Ehh ay bala, bir bils\u0259ydin o, burda n\u0259 \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. M\u0259n qap\u0131\u00e7\u0131yam, yaz\u0131q arvad h\u0259r g\u00fcn g\u0259lib onu axtaran olub-olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fur. Xeyli m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir qocalar evind\u0259dir, amma n\u0259 illah edir, uy\u011funla\u015fa bilmir. El\u0259 bildim qohumusan, dey\u0259c\u0259kdim ki, imkan edin onu buradan \u00e7\u0131xar\u0131n… <\/strong><\/span>
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\nHava buludlu v\u0259 k\u00fcl\u0259klidir. Y\u0259qin L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 bu havada otaqdan \u00e7\u00f6l\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmaz. Yax\u015f\u0131s\u0131 budur, el\u0259 birba\u015fa ota\u011f\u0131na yollan\u0131m.
\nQap\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6y\u00fcr\u0259m, a\u00e7\u0131r v\u0259 diqq\u0259tl\u0259 \u00fcz\u00fcm\u0259 bax\u0131r. A\u011flamaqdan g\u00f6zl\u0259ri yen\u0259 q\u0131pq\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131d\u0131r. “Salam, L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259”,-deyib d\u0259v\u0259tini g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259d\u0259n i\u00e7\u0259ri daxil oluram.
\n“\u00c7ox dar\u0131x\u0131ram, ay o\u011ful, s\u0259n d\u0259 ki m\u0259n z\u0259ng vurandan-vurana yada sal\u0131rsan n\u0259n\u0259ni. S\u0259ni d\u0259 q\u0131nam\u0131ram, g\u0259r\u0259k bu qocalar evini \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 yax\u0131n yerd\u0259 tik\u0259ydil\u0259r ki, g\u0259lib-ged\u0259n \u00e7ox olsun. \u00dcst\u0259lik, \u00fcr\u0259yimiz dar\u0131xanda \u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz d\u0259 \u015f\u0259h\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xayd\u0131q, g\u0259z\u0259ydik. Yoxsa bu ya\u015fda o boyda yolu gedib-g\u0259lm\u0259k olar? El\u0259 bil yax\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z kimi, bu \u015f\u0259h\u0259r d\u0259 imtina edib bizd\u0259n”,-deyir.
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\nL\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 il\u0259 M\u00fcharib\u0259 v\u0259 \u018fm\u0259k \u018flill\u0259ri \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn Pansionatda 4-5 il \u00f6nc\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f olmu\u015fam. Olduqca m\u00fclayim, nurlu, ziyal\u0131 bir xan\u0131md\u0131r. A\u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n onu atd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 he\u00e7 c\u00fcr q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmir\u0259m. \u00d6mr\u00fcn\u00fcn yar\u0131dan \u00e7oxunu \u00f6vlad t\u0259rbiy\u0259sin\u0259, \u00f6vlad b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259y\u0259 x\u0259rcl\u0259y\u0259s\u0259n, ax\u0131rda da s\u0259ni k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259 atalar. Ona g\u00f6r\u0259 k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259y\u0259 atalar deyir\u0259m ki, L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259ni qocalar evin\u0259 \u00f6vladlar\u0131 yox, onun k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259n xeyirxah insanlar g\u0259tiribl\u0259r…
\nXat\u0131rlad\u0131m ki, L\u0259tif\u0259 S\u0259f\u0259rova 1919-cu ild\u0259 G\u0259nc\u0259 \u015f\u0259h\u0259rind\u0259 d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259lib. \u0130kiillik texnikum t\u0259hsilind\u0259n sonra indiki D\u00f6vl\u0259t \u0130qtisad Universitetini bitirib. 1938-ci ild\u0259 is\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurub. H\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 \u0130kinci D\u00fcnya m\u00fcharib\u0259sind\u0259 h\u0259lak olub. B\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r\u0259 baxmayaraq, uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t G\u0259nc\u0259d\u0259 v\u0259 A\u011fdamda biologiya f\u0259nnind\u0259n d\u0259rs deyib. 1962-ci ild\u0259n 1986-c\u0131 il\u0259 kimi K\u0259nd T\u0259s\u0259rr\u00fcfat\u0131 Nazirliyind\u0259 metodist v\u0259zif\u0259sind\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131b. \u0130ki o\u011flu var. 2003-c\u00fc ilin oktyabr ay\u0131ndan qocalar evind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r…
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\nDediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 1940-c\u0131 ild\u0259 c\u0259bh\u0259y\u0259 yollan\u0131b. Onda o\u011flu Vaqifin 1 ya\u015f\u0131 var imi\u015f: “O vaxtlar dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131q \u00e7ox \u00e7\u0259tin idi. Orda-burda m\u00fcxt\u0259lif ev i\u015fl\u0259ri g\u00f6r\u00fcb, Vaqifi yedizdirirdim. Bir g\u00fcn yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n “qara ka\u011f\u0131z”\u0131 g\u0259ldi. “Qara ka\u011f\u0131z” g\u0259l\u0259n\u0259d\u0259k \u00fcmidim vard\u0131, fikirl\u0259\u015firdim ki, \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259r m\u00fcv\u0259qq\u0259tidir v\u0259 yolda\u015f\u0131m c\u0259bh\u0259d\u0259n qay\u0131dandan sonra xo\u015fb\u0259xt g\u00fcnl\u0259rimiz\u0259 qay\u0131daca\u011f\u0131q. Amma…
\nBu hadis\u0259d\u0259n sonra Vaqif\u0259 daha \u00e7ox ba\u011fland\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnki bundan sonra onun h\u0259m anas\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 atas\u0131 olacaqd\u0131m. Vaqifin is\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259d\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259ri yox idi. Bir az gec \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k ver\u0259n kimi a\u011flay\u0131b-s\u0131zlay\u0131rd\u0131”.
\nS\u00f6hb\u0259timizin bu yerind\u0259 L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259lmi\u015f daha bir hadis\u0259ni n\u0259ql etm\u0259k ist\u0259diyini s\u00f6yl\u0259yir. Dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, bu hadis\u0259d\u0259n Vaqifin \u00f6z\u00fc bel\u0259 x\u0259b\u0259rsizdir: “Bir g\u00fcn s\u0259h\u0259r tezd\u0259n evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131m ki, i\u015f tap\u0131b g\u00f6r\u00fcm, \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k versinl\u0259r. \u00d6z\u00fc d\u0259 m\u0259n ki\u015fi, ya qad\u0131n i\u015fi olsun, f\u0259rq qoymazd\u0131m, t\u0259ki \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k versinl\u0259r deyib, h\u0259r i\u015f\u0259 \u0259l qoyard\u0131m. S\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259n ax\u015famad\u0259k k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259l\u0259ri dola\u015fd\u0131m, amma i\u015f tapa bilm\u0259dim.
\nKor-pe\u015fman ev\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131rd\u0131m. Yol boyu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm ki, g\u00f6r\u0259s\u0259n \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k tapa bilm\u0259diyimi Vaqif\u0259 nec\u0259 ba\u015fa salaca\u011fam.
\nEv\u0259 \u00e7atma\u011fa az qalm\u0131\u015f g\u00f6rd\u00fcm ki, b\u00f6y\u00fck bir a\u011f it a\u011fz\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259k par\u00e7as\u0131 qa\u00e7\u0131r. Y\u0259qin hardansa o\u011furlam\u0131\u015fd\u0131. H\u0259min an d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm ki, nec\u0259 olursa-olsun \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yi itin a\u011fz\u0131ndan almal\u0131yam. Ba\u015fqa vaxt olsayd\u0131 qorxard\u0131m, qa\u00e7ard\u0131m ki, it m\u0259ni par\u00e7alayar. Amma bu d\u0259f\u0259 Vaqifin qarn\u0131 ac idi dey\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u0259 he\u00e7 n\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcnm\u0259di. Bel\u0259likl\u0259, d\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcm itin dal\u0131na. \u0130t d\u0259 ki, vallah, p\u0259l\u0259ng boyda idi, el\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131rd\u0131 ki, indiki cavan qad\u0131nlar ona \u00e7\u0259tin \u00e7atarlar. \u0130t qa\u00e7d\u0131, m\u0259n qovdum, m\u0259n qovdum, it qa\u00e7d\u0131. N\u0259hay\u0259t, bir k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259nin sonunda it qa\u00e7ma\u011fa yer olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcb geri d\u00f6nd\u00fc. N\u0259f\u0259sim k\u0259silmi\u015fdi, \u0259g\u0259r bu d\u0259f\u0259 \u0259limd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xsayd\u0131, onu tuta bilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kdim. \u0130t d\u0259 ac idi, \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yi verm\u0259k ist\u0259mirdi. M\u0131r\u0131ldaya-m\u0131r\u0131ldaya \u00fcst\u00fcm\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flad\u0131. Yan\u0131mdan ke\u00e7ib qa\u00e7maq ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 at\u0131ld\u0131m \u00fcst\u00fcn\u0259. \u00c7\u00f6r\u0259yi at\u0131b \u00fcst\u00fcm\u0259 cumdu. \u018flimi, aya\u011f\u0131m\u0131 di\u015fl\u0259di. A\u011fr\u0131lara \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259 d\u0259 olsa d\u00f6z\u00fcb \u00e7\u00f6r\u0259yi \u0259l\u0259 ke\u00e7irdim. H\u0259min gec\u0259 Vaqif doyunca yeyib m\u0131\u015f\u0131l-m\u0131\u015f\u0131l yatd\u0131”…
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\nBel\u0259c\u0259 ac\u0131 g\u00fcnl\u0259r davam edir v\u0259 anas\u0131 L\u0259tif\u0259nin hal\u0131na d\u00f6zm\u0259yib ona ail\u0259 qurma\u011f\u0131 t\u0259klif edir: “Anam \u0259l \u00e7\u0259kmirdi. Deyirdi ki, s\u0259ni bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 qoyub d\u00fcnyadan k\u00f6\u00e7s\u0259m, nec\u0259 rahat ola bil\u0259rs\u0259n? Dig\u0259r qohumlar\u0131n da t\u0259kidi il\u0259 ail\u0259 qurdum. Yolda\u015f\u0131m Vaqif\u0259 \u00e7ox yax\u015f\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259rirdi. Sonradan bir o\u011flumuz da d\u00fcnyaya g\u0259ldi. Ad\u0131n\u0131 Akif qoyduq. Amma bundan sonra yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n Vaqif\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti d\u0259yi\u015fdi. T\u0259bii ki, bir ana kimi bu m\u0259n\u0259 \u00e7ox pis t\u0259sir edirdi. Ax\u0131 m\u0259n Vaqifin rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa raz\u0131l\u0131q vermi\u015fdim. O, Vaqifi d\u00f6y\u00fcr, “get qohumlar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda qal” deyirdi. Bir g\u00fcn bel\u0259, bir ay bel\u0259, bir il bel\u0259, n\u0259hay\u0259t, d\u00f6z\u0259\u00a0 bilm\u0259dim v\u0259 etiraz\u0131m\u0131 bildirdim. “U\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6t\u00fcr, c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m ol”,-dedi”.
\nBu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n sonra evl\u0259nm\u0259yi t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 etmi\u015f qohumlar\u0131 L\u0259tif\u0259y\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 daha diqq\u0259tli olma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. V\u0259 bel\u0259likl\u0259, o, \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6y\u00fcd\u00fcb ba\u015fa \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131r: “H\u0259rbi xidm\u0259td\u0259n qay\u0131dandan sonra Vaqifi evl\u0259ndirm\u0259k q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259ldim. Q\u0131z\u0131 da \u00f6z\u00fc se\u00e7di. \u00d6yr\u0259ndim ki, sevdiyi q\u0131z Tibb Universitetini bitirib. Evl\u0259ndil\u0259r, bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t birg\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131q. Sonradan Vaqif \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 ev ald\u0131 v\u0259 bizd\u0259n ayr\u0131ld\u0131. D\u00f6rd-be\u015f il sonra Akifi evl\u0259ndirm\u0259k q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259ldim. Akif \u0259rk\u00f6y\u00fcn idi, onun q\u0131z se\u00e7m\u0259kd\u0259 yan\u0131laca\u011f\u0131ndan narahat idim. Sevdiyi q\u0131z “SUM”da sat\u0131c\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259yirdi. \u0130lk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fd\u0259n hiss etdim ki, q\u0131z\u0131n m\u0259nd\u0259n xo\u015fu g\u0259lm\u0259di. Ondan valideynl\u0259rinin kim oldu\u011funu, harada ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fdum, cavab verm\u0259di. Ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bunlar\u0131 Akif\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131m. Amma o raz\u0131la\u015fmad\u0131, israrla dedi ki, “s\u0259n imkan vers\u0259n, m\u0259n o q\u0131zla xo\u015fb\u0259xt ola bil\u0259r\u0259m”. Bundan sonra Akif g\u00fcnl\u0259rl\u0259 ev\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259di. Bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t sonra e\u015fitdim ki, ail\u0259 qurub, kiray\u0259d\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rlar. D\u00f6zm\u0259dim, x\u0259b\u0259r g\u00f6nd\u0259rdim ki, y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131n g\u0259lin ev\u0259. Akif d\u0259 “SUM”da i\u015f\u0259 d\u00fcz\u0259lmi\u015fdi. \u0130lk g\u00fcnd\u0259n g\u0259linim evin a\u00e7arlar\u0131n\u0131 m\u0259nd\u0259n ald\u0131 v\u0259 dedi ki, “n\u0259 oturursan evd\u0259, \u00e7\u0131x k\u00fc\u00e7\u0259d\u0259 g\u0259z, parkda dola\u015f”. H\u0259tta bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259 \u0259l qald\u0131rm\u0131\u015fd\u0131. Akif is\u0259 bunlar\u0131 g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259zliy\u0259 vururdu. B\u00f6y\u00fck o\u011flum Vaqif ba\u015f\u0131ma g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r tutanda m\u0259ni \u00f6z evin\u0259 apard\u0131. Onun \u00fc\u00e7 q\u0131z\u0131 vard\u0131, amma evi ikiotaql\u0131 idi. \u00c7ox s\u0131x\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131lar. Yolda\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131 tez-tez Vaqifl\u0259 m\u00fcbahis\u0259 edir v\u0259 bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259tin n\u0259 vaxtad\u0259k davam ed\u0259c\u0259yini soru\u015furdular.
\nAx\u0131r bir g\u00fcn evd\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131m. Uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t qalma\u011fa yerim olmad\u0131 v\u0259 bir g\u00fcn yard\u0131msev\u0259r insanlar m\u0259ni bura g\u0259tirdil\u0259r”.
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L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 deyir ki, onlara bu pansionatda h\u0259r c\u00fcr \u015f\u0259rait yarad\u0131blar: “Vaxtl\u0131-vaxt\u0131nda yem\u0259yimizi, yard\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 verirl\u0259r. H\u0259tta biz\u0259 televizor da ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131blar ki, dar\u0131xanda baxaq”.
\nLakin b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlara baxmayaraq, L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 qocalar evin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fa bilmir: “Dua edir\u0259m ki, Vaqifin imkan\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131la\u015fs\u0131n, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 \u00fc\u00e7otaql\u0131 ev als\u0131n v\u0259 m\u0259ni burdan apars\u0131n. Amma o da n\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259 xeyli m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir ki, m\u0259ni yada salm\u0131r. Kim bilir, b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 art\u0131q 3 otaql\u0131 ev al\u0131b… Deyil\u0259n\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, Akifin d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259ti yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r, Bak\u0131da q\u0131z\u0131l ma\u011fazas\u0131 var. H\u0259r s\u0259h\u0259r g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc a\u00e7anda \u00fcmid edir\u0259m ki, o\u011flum bu g\u00fcn dal\u0131mca g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k. Ne\u00e7\u0259 “bu g\u00fcn”l\u0259ri yola salsam da, n\u0259 \u00fcmidimi itirmi\u015f\u0259m, n\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc yollardan y\u0131\u011fm\u0131\u015fam. Bilirsinizmi, qocalar evind\u0259n do\u011fma ail\u0259y\u0259 qay\u0131tmaq yenid\u0259n do\u011fulmaq kimidir”.<\/p>\n

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\nS\u00f6hb\u0259timizin bu yerind\u0259 L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 televizoru a\u00e7\u0131r v\u0259 telekanallar\u0131n birind\u0259 evlilik proqram\u0131na baxaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 deyir: “Ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ox qat\u0131r bu verili\u015f. Yax\u015f\u0131 proqramd\u0131r, amma g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bel\u0259 tez evlilik q\u0259rar\u0131 verm\u0259l\u0259ri m\u0259ni \u00e7ox qorxudur. Bir d\u0259f\u0259 \u00e7ay i\u00e7m\u0259kl\u0259 bir-birini nec\u0259 tan\u0131maq olar ax\u0131? Qorxuram bu c\u00fcr evlilikl\u0259rd\u0259n sonra bo\u015fanmalar daha da arta”…
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\nL\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259d\u0259n son vaxtlar qocalar evin\u0259 yeni g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259rin olub-olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015furam. Bir az d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fckd\u0259n sonra deyir: “Eh, ay o\u011ful, insan qocalar evind\u0259 olanda h\u0259yat\u0131 daha d\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259rk edir. Qocalar evi d\u0259 fani d\u00fcnya kimidir, kimin vaxt\u0131 tamam olur k\u00f6\u00e7\u00fcr, onun yerin\u0259 is\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131 g\u0259lir. Bildiyim\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, burda yerl\u0259r \u00e7oxdan dolub. N\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259 is\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 \u00e7ox adam var”.
\nDiqq\u0259timiz yen\u0259 televiziya proqram\u0131na y\u00f6n\u0259lir. Apar\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n “m\u00fcasir ail\u0259” ifad\u0259si L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259nin yaras\u0131na sanki k\u00f6z bas\u0131r: “N\u0259d\u0259ns\u0259 bizd\u0259 \u00e7oxlar\u0131 m\u00fcasir ail\u0259ni h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n imtina etm\u0259kd\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcr. El\u0259 bilirl\u0259r ki, m\u00fcasir adam h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n imtina etm\u0259lidir. El\u0259 qocalar evind\u0259 d\u00f6rd divar aras\u0131nda qalan ata-analar\u0131n da yar\u0131dan \u00e7oxu bu c\u00fcr “m\u00fcasir ail\u0259l\u0259r”d\u0259n k\u0259narla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lanlard\u0131r. Bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 b\u00f6y\u00fcy\u0259n, t\u0259rbiy\u0259 alan u\u015faqlar da g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 bu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnasib\u0259t g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. G\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t g\u00f6r\u0259rdim ki, ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259n n\u00fcmun\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcrs\u00fcnl\u0259r, ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rimizi unutmas\u0131nlar, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259r\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259t etsinl\u0259r. Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259si h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 m\u00f6hk\u0259m t\u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 qurulub. M\u00f6hk\u0259m ail\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc c\u0259miyy\u0259tin t\u0259m\u0259l da\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259 az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcq\u0259dd\u0259s ocaqd\u0131r. G\u0259ncl\u0259r bunlar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsalar, ail\u0259l\u0259ri uzun\u00f6m\u00fcrl\u00fc v\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olar”.
\nVerili\u015f qurtarmam\u0131\u015f sa\u011folla\u015f\u0131b otaqdan \u00e7\u0131xmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, L\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 t\u0259k qalanda yoxlu\u011fumu \u00e7ox hiss etm\u0259sin. O is\u0259 sanki bunu hiss edirmi\u015f kimi aya\u011fa durub p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259nin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na qoydu\u011fu bo\u011f\u00e7as\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Bir xeyli e\u015f\u0259l\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259n sonra bo\u011f\u00e7adan tapd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259ktubu m\u0259n\u0259 uzad\u0131b deyir: “G\u00f6t\u00fcr bunlar\u0131. \u00d6z\u00fcm\u00fcn v\u0259 qocalar evind\u0259 ya\u015fayanlar\u0131n ad\u0131ndan M\u00fcbariz \u0130brahimovun valideynl\u0259rin\u0259 – A\u011fak\u0259rim ki\u015fiy\u0259 v\u0259 \u015eamama xan\u0131ma \u00fcr\u0259k s\u00f6zl\u0259rimi yazm\u0131\u015fam, imkan\u0131n olsa, q\u0259zetd\u0259 \u00e7ap ed\u0259rs\u0259n”.
\nM\u0259ktubu a\u00e7\u0131b oxuyuram, \u00fc\u00e7 c\u00fcml\u0259d\u0259n ibar\u0259tdir: “Bu m\u0259ktubu siz\u0259 qocalar evind\u0259 ya\u015fayan h\u0259r bir at\u0131lm\u0131\u015f\u0131n ad\u0131ndan yaz\u0131ram. \u0130nan\u0131n, buradak\u0131lar\u0131n h\u0259r biri sizin yeriniz\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ox ist\u0259rdi. T\u0259ki bizim \u00f6vladlar\u0131m\u0131z da M\u00fcbariz q\u0259d\u0259r \u015f\u0259r\u0259fli, m\u0259rd olayd\u0131lar…”
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\nL\u0259tif\u0259 n\u0259n\u0259 il\u0259 sa\u011folla\u015f\u0131b, onun qald\u0131\u011f\u0131 korpusu t\u0259rk edir\u0259m. T\u0259l\u0259m-t\u0259l\u0259sik h\u0259y\u0259td\u0259n \u00e7\u0131xmaq ist\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 qocalar evinin giri\u015find\u0259 dayanm\u0131\u015f a\u011f “Toyota” diqq\u0259timi \u00e7\u0259kir. Avtomobilin i\u00e7\u0259risind\u0259 oturmu\u015f a\u011fsa\u00e7l\u0131 qoca yan\u0131ndak\u0131 g\u0259ncin boynunu qucaqlay\u0131b h\u00f6nk\u00fcr-h\u00f6nk\u00fcr a\u011flay\u0131rd\u0131: “N\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 oldu, a bala, bilirdim ki, g\u0259lib m\u0259ni burdan aparacaqsan. N\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 oldu”…<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Nicat \u0130smay\u0131lov<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Qeyd: Bu yaz\u0131 Az\u0259rbaycan Respublikas\u0131n\u0131n Prezidenti Yan\u0131nda K\u00fctl\u0259vi \u0130nformasiya Vasit\u0259l\u0259rinin \u0130nki\u015faf\u0131na D\u00f6vl\u0259t D\u0259st\u0259yi Fondunun jurnalistl\u0259r aras\u0131nda ke\u00e7irdiyi \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259qal\u0259 m\u00fcsabiq\u0259sind\u0259 birinci yerin qalib olub.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

– Ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131n, L\u0259tif\u0259 S\u0259f\u0259rovan\u0131 nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m? – Siz onun o\u011flusunuz? – Yox, \u00f6z\u00fc z\u0259ng edib \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131b. Xat\u0131rlay\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131zsa, bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 g\u0259lmi\u015fdim… – Ehh ay bala, bir bils\u0259ydin o, burda n\u0259 \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kir. M\u0259n qap\u0131\u00e7\u0131yam, yaz\u0131q arvad h\u0259r g\u00fcn g\u0259lib onu axtaran olub-olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soru\u015fur. Xeyli m\u00fcdd\u0259tdir qocalar evind\u0259dir, amma n\u0259 illah edir, uy\u011funla\u015fa bilmir. 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