\n| Bu misralar sevgi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri \u0259ks etdirir, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox aktual s\u0259sl\u0259nir. Aylarla, ill\u0259rl\u0259 bir-birinin yolunu g\u00f6zl\u0259yib, bir-birin\u0259 heyran k\u0259sil\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r evliliyin bir ilini arxada qoymam\u0131\u015f m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcz tuturlar. Bu, d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n d\u00fcnyam\u0131zda art\u0131q adil\u0259\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259 olan ac\u0131 h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259rimizd\u0259n biridir. Bir zamanlar bir ail\u0259nin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131 bir elin f\u0259lak\u0259ti hesab olunurdu, indi is\u0259 adi, s\u0131radan bir hadis\u0259 kimi qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r.<\/p>\n Bu d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n d\u00fcnyada h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z da, d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimiz d\u0259, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir v\u0259 t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, bu d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259 he\u00e7 d\u0259 h\u0259r m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 xo\u015f s\u00fcrprizl\u0259r v\u0259d etmir. Bir vaxtlar daha \u00e7ox sevm\u0259d\u0259n, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259ti il\u0259 evl\u0259nirdil\u0259r, amma bo\u015fanmalar nadir hallarda ba\u015f verirdi, indi is\u0259 daha \u00e7ox sev\u0259r\u0259k, bir-birin\u0259 isini\u015f\u0259r\u0259k ail\u0259 qururlar, amma, t\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcfl\u0259r olsun ki, bo\u015fanmalar ilb\u0259il art\u0131r.<\/p>\n El\u0259 is\u0259 biz\u0259 n\u0259 olub? Yoxsa, bir-birimizi nec\u0259 sev\u0259c\u0259yimizi bilmirik? Yoxsa, bir-birimizi nec\u0259 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259c\u0259yimizi bacarm\u0131r\u0131q? Yoxsa, sevgi dediyin t\u0259m\u0259nnadan ba\u015fqa bir \u015fey deyil?.. S\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r m\u00fcxt\u0259lif, talel\u0259r f\u0259rqli-f\u0259rqli. Amma n\u0259 deyirsiniz-deyin, ail\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259l\u0259rinin getdikc\u0259 \u00f6z m\u00f6hk\u0259mliyini, \u00f6z davaml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 itirm\u0259si biz\u0259 xo\u015f \u015feyl\u0259r v\u0259d etmir. H\u0259r bir az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259 – qala dem\u0259kdir. Y\u0259ni, h\u0259r birimiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259miz al\u0131nmaz qalam\u0131zd\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r mentalitet deyil\u0259n bir \u015fey varsa v\u0259 biz buna inan\u0131r\u0131qsa, \u0259min olun ki, Az\u0259rbaycan mentalitetinin ba\u015f\u0131nda h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri g\u0259lib. Az\u0259rbaycan mentalitetind\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri, daha do\u011frusu, ail\u0259 m\u0259hr\u0259miyy\u0259ti h\u0259yat q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259rli, uca tutulub. Bu da bir h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir ki, Az\u0259rbaycan klassik \u015e\u0259rq m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tini t\u0259msil etdiyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn burada ail\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 \u00e7ox a\u011f\u0131r bir m\u0259suliyy\u0259t kimi anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131b. Y\u0259ni, ail\u0259 qurursansa, art\u0131q t\u0259k \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc yox, \u00f6m\u00fcr-g\u00fcn yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n v\u0259 h\u0259tta yeri g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 onun qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u00f6nd\u0259 tutacaqsan. Az\u0259rbaycan ail\u0259sinin t\u0259m\u0259l daya\u011f\u0131 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 f\u0259dakarl\u0131q olub. T\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcr edirsinizmi, ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n g\u0259lin t\u0259kc\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131n deyil, onun ata-anas\u0131n\u0131n da, \u0259g\u0259r varsa baba-n\u0259n\u0259sinin d\u0259, qarda\u015f-bac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n da naz\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259li, bir n\u00f6v o ail\u0259nin atmosferin\u0259 gir\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7ox f\u0259dakarl\u0131qlara qatlasmal\u0131 olub. \u00c7\u0259tin deyilmi? – \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, \u00e7\u0259tindir. Amma aradak\u0131 sevgi, x\u0259tir-h\u00f6rm\u0259t, b\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rin xeyir-duas\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri, a\u011fr\u0131-ac\u0131lar\u0131 bir anda unutdura bilib. Q\u0259rbd\u0259 is\u0259 ail\u0259 daha \u00e7ox azadl\u0131q, s\u0259rb\u0259stlik dem\u0259k olub v\u0259 biz bu g\u00fcn q\u0259rbl\u0259\u015fm\u0259 yolunu tutmu\u015fuq. Bu yol ilk bax\u0131\u015fdan \u00e7ox rahat, \u00e7ox asan g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, amma, bir q\u0259d\u0259r yuxar\u0131da dediyimzi kimi, bir \u00e7ox hallarda da ac\u0131 sonluqla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nir. Q\u0259rib\u0259 buras\u0131ndad\u0131r ki, art\u0131q bo\u015fanma \u00e7oxlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn he\u00e7 d\u0259 ac\u0131 sonluq m\u0259nas\u0131na g\u0259lmir. Q\u0131sa bir m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey dem\u0259k olar ki, k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015fir…<\/p>\n Statistika g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bu g\u00fcn Amerikada qad\u0131nlar\u0131n 41 faizi nikahdank\u0259nar ya\u015fay\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, onlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u201cail\u0259, u\u015faq sahibi olmaq\u201d hissi yox, sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq \u201cg\u00fcn ke\u00e7irm\u0259k\u201d hissi daha vacibdir. Demokratiyan\u0131n be\u015fiyi olan Avropada da m\u0259nz\u0259r\u0259 son d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259 qorxuncdur. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, bizd\u0259 d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t getdikc\u0259 arzuolunmaz x\u0259tt\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015f\u0131r. Siz\u0259 zarafat g\u0259lm\u0259sin, son ill\u0259rin statistik g\u00f6st\u0259ricil\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, \u00f6lk\u0259mizd\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n faizi xeyli art\u0131b.<\/p>\n Ail\u0259l\u0259rin da\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n m\u00fcxt\u0259lif s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. T\u0259bii ki, bu m\u00f6vzuda dan\u0131\u015fanda, ilk n\u00f6vb\u0259d\u0259, a\u011fl\u0131m\u0131za iqtisadi probleml\u0259r v\u0259 onlar\u0131n t\u00f6r\u0259tdiyi f\u0259sadlar g\u0259lir. B\u0259li, bu amil \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcmd\u00fcr, amma ham\u0131s\u0131 deyil. \u018fg\u0259r ba\u015fqa c\u0259bh\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259nziml\u0259ns\u0259, bu sah\u0259d\u0259ki bo\u015flu\u011fu kompensasiya etm\u0259k olar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 buras\u0131ndad\u0131r ki, iqtisadi probleml\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131 dig\u0259r m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n artmas\u0131nda az rol oynam\u0131r.<\/p>\n H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin psixoloji t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r salmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu bir h\u0259qiq\u0259tdir ki, son d\u00f6vrl\u0259rd\u0259 qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259tind\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r. Evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131rl\u0131q t\u0259kc\u0259 cinsi yetkinlik dem\u0259k deyil, m\u0259suliyy\u0259tdir, yeni h\u0259yat ritmidir, h\u0259r \u015feyini payla\u015fmaqd\u0131r, \u00f6z\u00fc il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n da qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, probleml\u0259rini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u0259kdir. \u018fg\u0259r g\u0259ncl\u0259r bunu q\u0259bul etmirl\u0259rs\u0259, dem\u0259k, evliliy\u0259 haz\u0131r deyill\u0259r.<\/p>\n ![\"sevgi\"](\"http:\/\/www.zerdab.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/sevgi-1-550x550.jpg\") <\/a>Dinimiz evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k g\u0259ncl\u0259rin bir-biri il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259rini, tan\u0131\u015f olmalar\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259r \u015feyi ir\u0259lic\u0259d\u0259n m\u00fczakir\u0259 ed\u0259r\u0259k, v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini, h\u00fcquqlar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00f6lm\u0259l\u0259rini t\u00f6vsiy\u0259 edir. Ad\u0259t\u0259n, o ail\u0259l\u0259r sa\u011flam olur ki, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r \u00f6z h\u00fcquqlar\u0131 il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 bilirl\u0259r. \u00c7\u00fcnki t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rd\u0259n biri \u00f6z v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259dikd\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r getdikc\u0259 g\u0259rginl\u0259\u015fir, t\u0259s\u0259vv\u00fcrl\u0259r alt-\u00fcst olur v\u0259 ac\u0131 n\u0259tic\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131lmaz hala g\u0259lir. Sevm\u0259k b\u00f6y\u00fck nem\u0259tdir, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc, qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, m\u0259i\u015f\u0259tini, s\u00fcfr\u0259ni b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fd\u00fcy\u00fcn insanla bir-birini sevm\u0259k, onun \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131xmaq g\u00f6z\u0259ldir. Amma sevgi g\u00f6zl\u0259ri kor ed\u0259nd\u0259 f\u0259lak\u0259tin anas\u0131 olur. Bel\u0259 ki, sevgi reall\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc p\u0259rd\u0259l\u0259yirs\u0259, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-biril\u0259rini oldu\u011fu kimi g\u00f6r\u0259 bilmirl\u0259rs\u0259, bel\u0259 sevginin \u00f6mr\u00fc d\u0259 uzun olmur. Sevm\u0259k h\u0259m d\u0259 f\u0259dakarl\u0131qd\u0131r, sevdiyinin yolunda c\u0259faya qatla\u015fmaqd\u0131r. Amma el\u0259 ilk add\u0131mda qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n problemd\u0259n qorxub geri \u00e7\u0259kilm\u0259k bu m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc q\u0131saltmaq dem\u0259kdir. Sevm\u0259k h\u0259m d\u0259 ummaqd\u0131r. Umulan olmayanda sevgi d\u0259 \u00f6z t\u0259rav\u0259tini, g\u00f6z\u0259lliyini saxlaya bilmir.<\/p>\nM\u00f6vzu il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f m\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rimiz\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t etdik v\u0259 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da onlar\u0131n fikirl\u0259rini sizin diqq\u0259tiniz\u0259 \u00e7atd\u0131r\u0131r\u0131q…<\/p>\n Psixoterapevt F\u0259xriyy\u0259 M\u0259mm\u0259dova: \u201cAil\u0259d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalara daha \u00e7ox s\u0259b\u0259b olan psixoloji s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r: anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q, h\u00f6rm\u0259tsizlik, u\u015faqlar\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259si, ail\u0259 b\u00fcdc\u0259sinin d\u00fczg\u00fcn x\u0259rcl\u0259nm\u0259m\u0259sidir. Ail\u0259nin t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 h\u00f6rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259, ona yard\u0131m etm\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Arada qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fma olmayanda \u0259n adi bir m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 bel\u0259 inciklik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Bel\u0259 olanda da b\u0259zi ki\u015fil\u0259r fiziki \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fckl\u0259rind\u0259n sui-istifad\u0259 edir v\u0259 zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa yol verirl\u0259r. Halbuki, ail\u0259 f\u0259rdl\u0259ri bir-birini anlay\u0131\u015fla qar\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131, h\u0259r x\u0131rda q\u00fcsuru b\u00f6y\u00fctm\u0259m\u0259li, bir-birin\u0259 g\u00fcz\u0259\u015ft\u0259 getm\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u0130st\u0259r qad\u0131n olsun, ist\u0259r ki\u015fi qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin f\u0259dakarl\u0131\u011f\u0131na, ona qar\u015f\u0131 olan sevgisin\u0259 inanandan sonra eyni f\u0259dakar\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 eyni sevgini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. \u00c7ox nadir adam tapmaq olar ki, bu f\u0259dakarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 ya bu sevigini qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259sin. Bundan \u0259lav\u0259, ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r aras\u0131nda bir-biril\u0259rini q\u0131sqanmaq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si d\u0259 var. Bunu t\u0259bii qar\u015f\u0131lamaq olar, amma arada qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 inam olmali v\u0259 bu hissin \u00f6z h\u0259ddini a\u015fmasina imkan verilm\u0259m\u0259lidir. Psixoloji s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r aras\u0131nda \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 eqoizmdir. Halbuki ail\u0259d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t olmal\u0131, qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f o birin\u0259 (ya ad \u0259ksin\u0259) yuxar\u0131dan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 baxmamal\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259\u0259ss\u00fcf ki, c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 az da olsa, bu c\u00fcr hallara da rast g\u0259lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u201d.<\/p>\n Psixoloq H\u00fcseyn X\u0259lilov: \u201cAil\u0259d\u0259 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n bir \u00e7ox psixoloji s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var. Bu s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rin \u0259n ba\u015fl\u0131cas\u0131 xarakterl\u0259rin tutmamas\u0131d\u0131r. Ail\u0259 ilk quruldu\u011fu vaxtlarda h\u0259r \u015fey qaydas\u0131nda olur. Ancaq bir m\u00fcdd\u0259t ke\u00e7dikd\u0259n sonra t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin xasiyy\u0259ti bir-biril\u0259ri il\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fm\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bini soru\u015fsan\u0131z, \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti xasiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin d\u00fcz g\u0259lm\u0259diyini dey\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. \u0130kinci psixoloji amil is\u0259 ail\u0259 f\u0259rdl\u0259rind\u0259ki m\u0259n\u0259vi bo\u015fluqlard\u0131r. Vaxt ke\u00e7dikc\u0259 onlar aras\u0131nda eqoizm ba\u015f qald\u0131r\u0131r. Son vaxtlar bu eqoizm daha ciddi n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 \u00e7arp\u0131r. Ail\u0259nin bir t\u0259r\u0259fi seriallara, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 y\u00f6n\u0259ldikd\u0259 bu eqoizm \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc daha qabar\u0131q b\u00fcruz\u0259 verir. Bundan \u0259lav\u0259, bir d\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 \u201cevin s\u00fcp\u00fcrg\u0259si\u201d kimi g\u00f6r\u0259n insanlar var. Bu is\u0259 gec v\u0259 ya tez ail\u0259d\u0259 tarazl\u0131gin pozulmasi dem\u0259kdir. Dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, ail\u0259 \u00fczvl\u0259ri verdikl\u0259ri s\u00f6z\u00fc yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r v\u0259 b\u0259han\u0259l\u0259r uydururlar. Bel\u0259 hallar bo\u015fanmalar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn m\u00fcnbit \u015f\u0259rait meydana g\u0259tirir. Bir d\u0259 ki, f\u0259rdl\u0259r bir-biril\u0259ri il\u0259 payla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 bacarmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u201cS\u0259n el\u0259m\u0259lis\u0259n\u201d, \u201cS\u0259nin i\u015findir\u201d v\u0259 s. kimi \u015fablon fikirl\u0259r payla\u015fma hissinin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na s\u0259dd \u00e7\u0259kir.<\/p>\n T\u0259kc\u0259 ail\u0259 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sind\u0259 deyil, h\u0259r hans\u0131 m\u00f6vzuda insanlar\u0131 iki qism\u0259 b\u00f6lm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr: \u018fli \u00e7atan, h\u00f6km\u00fc ke\u00e7\u0259n, h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 \u201cm\u0259nimdir\u201d dey\u0259nl\u0259r, bir d\u0259 \u0259li alt\u0131nda, h\u00f6km\u00fc alt\u0131nda olan h\u0259r \u015feyi Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259ti bil\u0259nl\u0259r. T\u0259kc\u0259 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 insanlar\u0131 bir-birind\u0259n ay\u0131rmaq, daha yax\u015f\u0131 tan\u0131maq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn kifay\u0259tdir. B\u0259li, bu d\u00fcnyada biz\u0259 verilmi\u015f h\u0259r \u015fey Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259tidir. Uca Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259rimiz H\u0259zr\u0259ti M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d (s.\u0259.s.) d\u0259 Vida X\u00fctb\u0259sind\u0259: \u201cEy ki\u015fil\u0259r, siz qad\u0131nlar\u0131 Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259ti olaraq al\u0131b \u00f6z nikah\u0131n\u0131za q\u0259bul etdiniz\u201d – buyurmu\u015fdur. Ail\u0259 m\u00fc\u0259ssis\u0259sinin ciddiliyin\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 is\u0259 \u201cSiz evl\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k dininizi tamamlam\u0131\u015f olursunuz\u201d – deyilm\u0259kd\u0259dir. Ail\u0259 insan fitr\u0259tinin ehtiyac\u0131d\u0131r, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r ail\u0259 i\u00e7ind\u0259 bir-birini tamamlay\u0131r, bir-biri il\u0259 m\u0259mnun olurlar. Ail\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri ciddi olma\u011f\u0131 sevir ki, t\u0259rav\u0259tini, \u015fuxlu\u011funu, g\u00f6z\u0259lliyini itirm\u0259sin.<\/p>\n B\u00f6y\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259n biri deyir ki, \u0259n qal\u0131n p\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n yax\u0131n adamlar aras\u0131nda olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Yol yolda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 k\u00fcs\u00fc\u015f\u0259rs\u0259n, uzaqba\u015f\u0131 yolu s\u00fckut i\u00e7ind\u0259 ged\u0259rs\u0259n; i\u015f yolda\u015f\u0131nla k\u00fcs\u00fc\u015f\u0259rs\u0259n, ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 bir i\u015fl\u0259 qarisdirarsan; qon\u015fu il\u0259 k\u00fcs\u00fc\u015f\u0259rs\u0259n, o t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 baxmazsan, amma ail\u0259d\u0259n k\u00fcsm\u0259k \u00e7ox d\u0259h\u015f\u0259tli olur, bel\u0259 ki, evin i\u00e7ind\u0259 hara baxsan, o var.<\/p>\n B\u0259li, bir-birinizi Allah\u0131n \u0259man\u0259ti olaraq sevin. \u018fg\u0259r siz bir-birinizi bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 il\u0259 sevs\u0259niz, \u018fman\u0259t Sahibi d\u0259 sizin bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259nizi, bu sevginizi m\u00fckafatland\u0131rar, b\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259r. \u00dcr\u0259yin ist\u0259diyi h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 xeyirli olmur. B\u0259z\u0259n \u201c\u00fcr\u0259yim ist\u0259yir\u201d m\u0259ntiqi il\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi d\u0259y\u0259rd\u0259n sal\u0131r, sonra da m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259ri d\u00f6z\u00fclm\u0259z hala g\u0259tirirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n Yaz\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 M\u0259mm\u0259d Araz\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u015flam\u0131\u015fd\u0131q, M\u0259mm\u0259d \u0130smay\u0131l\u0131n s\u00f6zl\u0259ri il\u0259 tamamlamaq ist\u0259yirik:<\/p>\n \u201cEvl\u0259n\u0259n g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn sabah\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc, Qoymay\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131 adil\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259\u201d…<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" G\u00f6rk\u0259mli \u015fairimiz M\u0259mm\u0259d Araz\u0131n bel\u0259 bir s\u00f6z\u00fc var: \u201c\u00dcr\u0259y\u0259 girm\u0259yi bacarmaq azd\u0131r, \u00dcr\u0259kd\u0259 qalma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq g\u0259r\u0259k\u201d… Bu misralar sevgi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 \u00e7ox b\u00f6y\u00fck h\u0259qiq\u0259tl\u0259ri \u0259ks etdirir, x\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox aktual s\u0259sl\u0259nir. Aylarla, ill\u0259rl\u0259 bir-birinin yolunu g\u00f6zl\u0259yib, bir-birin\u0259 heyran k\u0259sil\u0259n g\u0259ncl\u0259r evliliyin bir ilini arxada qoymam\u0131\u015f m\u0259hk\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 \u00fcz tuturlar. 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