Sev\u0259nl\u0259r bir-birinin aynas\u0131 olur. H\u0259r k\u0259s qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin \u00e7\u00f6hr\u0259sind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcr. H\u0259r ayna da qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi m\u00fcxt\u0259lif c\u00fcr \u0259ks etdirir. \u018fg\u0259r arada sevgi varsa, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, h\u0259r \u015fey yax\u015f\u0131ya yozulacaq v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259r xo\u015f ovqatla yo\u011furulacaq. Sevgi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si is\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn yenil\u0259nm\u0259li, yeni ah\u0259ng\u0259, yeni ritm\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 olan bir duy\u011fudur. Bir \u015fair deyir ki:\u00dcr\u0259y\u0259 girm\u0259yi bacarmaq azd\u0131r, \u00dcr\u0259kd\u0259 qalma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq g\u0259r\u0259k (M\u0259mm\u0259d Araz).<\/p>\n
Y\u0259ni sevgini qorumaq, h\u0259r g\u00fcn, h\u0259r s\u0259h\u0259r t\u0259z\u0259-t\u0259r tutmaq onu qazanmaqdan daha \u00e7\u0259tindir. Y\u0259ni sevgi t\u0259z\u0259l\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, yeni duy\u011fularla b\u0259sl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 adil\u0259\u015fir, baya\u011f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00f6z\u0259lliyini, t\u0259rav\u0259tini itirir.<\/p>\n
Ba\u015fqa bir \u015fair d\u0259 eyni h\u0259qiq\u0259ti bir q\u0259d\u0259r ba\u015fqa t\u0259rzd\u0259 ifad\u0259 edir:<\/p>\n
Evl\u0259n\u0259n g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn sabah\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fc<\/p>\n
Qoymay\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131 adil\u0259\u015fm\u0259y\u0259<\/p>\n
(M\u0259mm\u0259d \u0130smay\u0131l).<\/p>\n
B\u0259z\u0259n deyirl\u0259r ki, sevginin g\u00f6z\u00fc kor olur, y\u0259ni qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f n\u0259yi nec\u0259 edir-etsin, sev\u0259n onun \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rind\u0259 q\u00fcsur g\u00f6r\u0259 bilmir. Sevginin kor olmas\u0131 h\u0259m d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 q\u00fcsuru g\u00f6r\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259k kimi izah olunur. Halbuki biz insan\u0131q; he\u00e7 birimiz d\u0259 x\u0259tadan s\u0131\u011fortalanmay\u0131b, ham\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0259hvi d\u0259 var, q\u00fcsuru da. Q\u00fcsuru do\u011fru kimi g\u00f6rm\u0259k ya g\u00f6z\u00fc \u00e7a\u015f hala g\u0259tir\u0259r, ya da qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi b\u00fctl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Biz bir-birimizi oldu\u011fumuz kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcb q\u0259bul el\u0259m\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131y\u0131q. T\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 g\u00f6st\u0259rir ki, bir-birini b\u00fct\u00fcn t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259ri, z\u0259if v\u0259 g\u00fccl\u00fc c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 tan\u0131y\u0131b evl\u0259n\u0259nl\u0259r sonrak\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 problem ya\u015fam\u0131rlar, h\u0259r \u015feyi asanl\u0131qla yoluna qoya bilirl\u0259r. Sonradan meydana \u00e7\u0131xan eyibl\u0259r, q\u00fcsurlar t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin h\u0259l\u0259 bir-birini tan\u0131madan q\u0259rar verdikl\u0259rini g\u00f6st\u0259rir. Bu da m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259rin meydana \u00e7\u0131xmas\u0131na, naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar\u0131n ya\u015fanmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur ki, b\u0259z\u0259n bu m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259 \u0259n a\u011f\u0131r, arzuolunmaz sonlu\u011fa q\u0259d\u0259r uzana bilir. Oldu\u011fumuz kimi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259k, g\u00f6r\u00fcnd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz kimi sevil\u0259k, g\u00f6rd\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fcz kimi sev\u0259k. \u018fmin olun ki, h\u0259r \u015feyin n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l, d\u00fcr\u00fcst v\u0259 s\u0259mimi oldu\u011funa \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz inanacaqs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Bir m\u00fct\u0259f\u0259kkir deyir ki, \u0259dal\u0259t h\u0259r k\u0259si layiq oldu\u011fu yer\u0259 qoymaq, h\u0259r k\u0259si layiq oldu\u011fu q\u0259d\u0259r sevm\u0259kdir. Y\u0259ni i\u015fin ba\u015f\u0131nda bir insan\u0131 q\u00fcsursuz g\u00f6rm\u0259k o dem\u0259kdir ki, h\u0259qiq\u0259t ortaya \u00e7\u0131xd\u0131qca m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259yi d\u0259 qa\u00e7\u0131lmaz olacaq. Bir q\u0259d\u0259r yuxar\u0131da dediyimiz kimi, \u0259n qal\u0131n p\u0259rd\u0259 \u0259n yax\u0131n adamlar aras\u0131nda olmal\u0131d\u0131r ki, m\u00fcnasib\u0259t tez q\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n, y\u0259ni bazara q\u0259d\u0259r deyil, m\u0259zara q\u0259d\u0259r davam ed\u0259 bilsin. Bir ki\u015fi \u00f6z xan\u0131m\u0131na \u201cs\u0259n m\u0259nim h\u0259r \u015feyims\u0259n\u201d v\u0259 ya \u201cs\u0259n m\u0259nim h\u0259yat\u0131msan\u201d deyirs\u0259, b\u00f6y\u00fck haqs\u0131zl\u0131q etmi\u015f olur. \u018fslind\u0259 bu c\u00fcr ifad\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti hans\u0131sa q\u0259bah\u0259tl\u0259rini, q\u00fcsurlar\u0131n\u0131 p\u0259rd\u0259l\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. S\u0259n \u00f6z xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 bir ki\u015finin \u00f6z xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sevm\u0259li oldu\u011fu q\u0259d\u0259r sevs\u0259n kifay\u0259tdir: s\u0259n \u00f6z valideynl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00f6z borcunu ver\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yin q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259mimi olsan, yet\u0259r; \u00e7evr\u0259nd\u0259, \u0259traf\u0131nda h\u0259r k\u0259sl\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti \u0259dal\u0259t \u00e7\u0259r\u00e7iv\u0259sind\u0259 saxlasan b\u0259sdir… Kims\u0259y\u0259 \u201ch\u0259r \u015feyims\u0259n\u201d deyib, haqs\u0131z duruma d\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259k. Biz\u0259 h\u0259r \u015feyi ver\u0259n Allahd\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n qeyd-\u015f\u0259rtsiz t\u0259slim olmal\u0131 oldu\u011fu, h\u0259r \u015feyini u\u011frunda f\u0259da ed\u0259c\u0259yi t\u0259k Varl\u0131q bizim ham\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n Xaliqi, R\u0259bbi olan Allah-Taalad\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Bir k\u00f6n\u00fcl adam\u0131 deyir ki, ail\u0259nin xo\u015fb\u0259xtliyi \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn d\u00f6rd \u015f\u0259rt var: sevgi, s\u0259mimiyy\u0259t, say\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 s\u0259bir. H\u0259tta b\u0259zil\u0259ri bu sayd\u0131qlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u00fcmumil\u0259\u015fdir\u0259r\u0259k, \u201cxo\u015fb\u0259xtliyin 4 \u201cS\u201d qanunu\u201d da deyirl\u0259r. H\u0259r d\u00f6rd\u00fc \u00e7ox m\u00fch\u00fcm amildir, amma s\u0259bir anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n x\u00fcsusi yeri var. Biz d\u0259 bu yaz\u0131m\u0131zda el\u0259 bu 4 \u201cS\u201d-d\u0259n \u0259n m\u00fch\u00fcm\u00fc, s\u0259bir \u0259traf\u0131nda fikir g\u0259zi\u015fm\u0259si el\u0259m\u0259k ist\u0259yirik.<\/p>\n
Bir d\u0259 bu h\u0259qiq\u0259ti unutmayaq ki, insan \u00f6l\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r t\u0259rbiy\u0259 olunur v\u0259 el aras\u0131nda deyildiyi kimi, uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fayanlar bir \u00e7ox hallarda h\u0259mr\u0259ng olmasalar da, h\u0259mxasiyy\u0259t olurlar. Y\u0259ni ail\u0259 iki f\u0259rdin bir-biri il\u0259 uzla\u015fmas\u0131, bir-birin\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fmas\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r v\u0259 bu uzla\u015fma, bu uy\u011funla\u015fma m\u00fcsb\u0259t istiqam\u0259td\u0259 olarsa, t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r bir-birini t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etmi\u015f olurlar. Ail\u0259nin \u0259n birinci v\u0259zif\u0259si n\u0259sil art\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259min etm\u0259k olsa da, bir i\u015fi d\u0259 insanlar\u0131n xo\u015f bir atmosferd\u0259, \u0259n s\u0259mimi m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r i\u00e7ind\u0259 \u00f6m\u00fcr s\u00fcrm\u0259sini t\u0259min etm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n
Sevgil\u0259r var ki, u\u011frunda \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc g\u00f6z\u0259 al\u0131rlar, amma bir m\u00fcdd\u0259td\u0259n sonra m\u0259lum olur ki, h\u0259r \u015fey quruca bir inad imi\u015f. H\u0259r sevgi bir qaynaqdan, bir m\u0259nb\u0259d\u0259n g\u0259lir. \u015e\u0259hv\u0259td\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n sevgi var, ad\u0259td\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259n sevgi var, inaddan g\u0259l\u0259n sevgi var, imandan g\u0259l\u0259n sevgi var. B\u0259z\u0259n sevginin qayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilm\u0259d\u0259n onun tufan\u0131na qap\u0131l\u0131b sovrulanlar olur. Ba\u015flayanda el\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ki, daha burdan o t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 yol, bundan ba\u015fqa sevil\u0259c\u0259k birisi yoxdur. G\u00f6zl\u0259r el\u0259 tutulur, duy\u011fular el\u0259 t\u0259lat\u00fcm\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, ortada a\u011f\u0131ldan \u0259s\u0259r-\u0259lam\u0259t qalm\u0131r. A\u011f\u0131l ba\u015fa g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 is\u0259 gec olur, \u00e7ox gec.<\/p>\n
\u018fslind\u0259 sevgi dediyin statik bir \u015fey deyil, bir n\u00f6v barama qurdu kimidir, m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259r ke\u00e7ir, ya\u015fa uy\u011fun olaraq r\u0259ngd\u0259n-r\u0259ng\u0259, \u015f\u0259kild\u0259n-\u015f\u0259kl\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. On be\u015f ya\u015fdak\u0131 d\u0259li sevgi \u0259lli be\u015f ya\u015fda m\u0259rh\u0259m\u0259t hissin\u0259, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011fa, \u00fclf\u0259t\u0259 d\u00f6n\u00fcr. \u018fslind\u0259 el\u0259 \u0259lli be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131n verdiyi o duy\u011fu on be\u015f ya\u015f\u0131n d\u0259li sevgisind\u0259n daha \u015firin, daha g\u00f6z\u0259ldir.<\/p>\n
Sevgi Allah\u0131n verdiyi nem\u0259tdir, h\u0259r k\u0259sin ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131, ya\u015faya bilm\u0259diyi dadd\u0131r. Amma h\u0259r n\u0259 olur olsun, lap sevgid\u0259 bel\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259k \u0259dal\u0259ti yaddan \u00e7\u0131xarmayasan. Yoxsa qa\u015f qay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z yerd\u0259 g\u00f6z \u00e7\u0131xarar\u0131q. V\u0259ssalam.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sev\u0259nl\u0259r bir-birinin aynas\u0131 olur. H\u0259r k\u0259s qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin \u00e7\u00f6hr\u0259sind\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcr. H\u0259r ayna da qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fi m\u00fcxt\u0259lif c\u00fcr \u0259ks etdirir. \u018fg\u0259r arada sevgi varsa, \u0259lb\u0259tt\u0259, h\u0259r \u015fey yax\u015f\u0131ya yozulacaq v\u0259 b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u0259r xo\u015f ovqatla yo\u011furulacaq. Sevgi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si is\u0259 h\u0259r g\u00fcn yenil\u0259nm\u0259li, yeni ah\u0259ng\u0259, yeni ritm\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 olan bir duy\u011fudur. Bir \u015fair deyir ki:\u00dcr\u0259y\u0259 girm\u0259yi bacarmaq […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-21976","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-knd"},"yoast_head":"\n