Telekanallarda q\u0131zlar\u0131n erk\u0259n ya\u015fda \u0259r\u0259 verilm\u0259si, ni\u015fan m\u0259rasiminin olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 verili\u015fl\u0259r\u0259, etirazlara, m\u00fczakir\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 rast g\u0259lirik. T\u0259bii ki, m\u00f6vzu sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259 olunur, iradlar bildirilir.<\/p>\n
Q\u0259rib\u0259dir ki, erk\u0259n ya\u015fda \u0259r\u0259 veril\u0259n, ni\u015fan m\u0259rasimi olan q\u0131zlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri b\u0259z\u0259n ba\u015f ver\u0259nl\u0259ri t\u0259bii qar\u015f\u0131lay\u0131r, h\u0259tta buna qar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131xan k\u0259nd sakinl\u0259rini ittiham edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
Bir insan 12 ya\u015f\u0131nda q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 niy\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 versin ki? Bir insan 13, 14, 15 ya\u015f\u0131nda q\u0131z\u0131 niy\u0259 m\u0259cburi ni\u015fanlas\u0131n ki? Hara t\u0259l\u0259sirsiniz?<\/p>\n
Sonra n\u0259 ba\u015f verir? Sizin bu ya\u015fda ni\u015fanlama\u011fa m\u0259cbur qoydu\u011funuz q\u0131z ya efir\u0259 m\u00fcraci\u0259t edib k\u00f6m\u0259k ist\u0259yir, ya da evd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131r…<\/p>\n
Bel\u0259 hallar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fckc\u0259 Z\u0259rdab\u0131m\u0131za, Z\u0259rdab\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n insanlar\u0131na t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr etm\u0259k g\u0259lir insan\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259n. Bilirsiniz niy\u0259? \u0130lahi, Z\u0259rdabda insanlar \u00f6z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r can yand\u0131r\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n
Bir d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 Zerdab.com-da payla\u015fm\u0131\u015fd\u0131m, y\u0259qin bir \u00e7oxlar\u0131n\u0131n yad\u0131nda olar – Z\u0259rdabda insanlar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn sanki b\u0259hs\u0259 giribl\u0259r. N\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l b\u0259hsdir bu, n\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l i\u015fdir bu, n\u0259 g\u00f6z\u0259l \u0259m\u0259ldir bu…<\/p>\n
Vallah, insana l\u0259zz\u0259t edir. H\u0259tta Z\u0259rdab\u0131n \u0259n ucqar k\u0259ndind\u0259 d\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, ali t\u0259hsilli olmas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, \u00f6zl\u0259rini oda-k\u00f6z\u0259 vururlar.<\/p>\n
D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 bunun \u015fahidi olmu\u015fam. Allah H\u0259s\u0259n b\u0259y Z\u0259rdabiy\u0259 r\u0259hm\u0259t el\u0259sin, y\u0259qin ki, indi bunlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcb ruhu sevinir, ruhu dinc\u0259lir, \u015fad olur.<\/p>\n
Y\u0259qin ki, el\u0259 sizl\u0259rin d\u0259 tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r insan var ki, b\u0259lk\u0259 iyn\u0259-d\u0259rman\u0131n\u0131n pulundan k\u0259sir, ancaq \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6nd\u0259rir. Bo\u011faz\u0131ndan k\u0259sir, yem\u0259yind\u0259n k\u0259sir, geyimind\u0259n k\u0259sir, amma u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 haz\u0131rla\u015fd\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn pul tap\u0131r, \u0259g\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259, kollec\u0259 daxil olubsa, ona g\u00f6nd\u0259rir.<\/p>\n
Ad \u00e7\u0259kmir\u0259m, bir n\u0259f\u0259r tan\u0131y\u0131ram, dem\u0259li, bu adam onun-bunun qap\u0131s\u0131nda f\u0259hl\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yir, dolan\u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131 da he\u00e7 yax\u015f\u0131 deyil. \u00d6z\u00fc is\u0259 orta m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 b\u0259lk\u0259 \u0259n pis oxuyanlardan olub, b\u0259lk\u0259 he\u00e7 m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 d\u0259 getm\u0259yib, ad\u0131n\u0131 yaza bilib-bilm\u0259diyini d\u0259 d\u0259qiq bilmir\u0259m, amma bu adam q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 qatla\u015fmad\u0131 ki… Haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011fa g\u00f6nd\u0259rdi, f\u0259rdi m\u00fc\u0259llim tutdu v\u0259 \u00e7ox \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ki, ist\u0259yin\u0259 nail oldu. \u0130ndi q\u0131z\u0131 ad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0259km\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259diyim \u015f\u0259h\u0259rd\u0259 t\u0259hsil al\u0131r, d\u0259rsl\u0259rini d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 oxuyur. H\u0259min ata q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaqdan s\u00f6z d\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 bilirsiniz nec\u0259 lov\u011falan\u0131r, nec\u0259 q\u00fcrurlan\u0131r? Ona qo\u015fulub s\u0259n d\u0259 qanadlanmaq ist\u0259yirs\u0259n, h\u0259min sevinci \u00fcr\u0259yind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131rsan.<\/p>\n
Bu yax\u0131nlarda m\u0259clisl\u0259rd\u0259n birind\u0259 maraql\u0131 hadis\u0259nin d\u0259 \u015fahidi oldum, z\u0259rdabl\u0131lar demi\u015fk\u0259n, l\u0259zz\u0259t el\u0259di.<\/p>\n
Dem\u0259li, m\u0259clisd\u0259 yem\u0259k bi\u015fir\u0259n bir anam\u0131z \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6z\u00fcn h\u0259qiqi m\u0259nas\u0131nda oda-k\u00f6z\u0259 vururdu. Bi\u015firdiyi \u0259td\u0259n m\u0259clis sahibi bir az pay verdi, bi\u015f\u0259n yem\u0259kd\u0259n pay verdi, 50 manat z\u0259hm\u0259thaqq\u0131 da \u00f6z yerind\u0259. \u0130\u015f \u0259snas\u0131nda xan\u0131m bir az q\u00fcrurla, bir az da lov\u011falanaraq bir ne\u00e7\u0259 d\u0259f\u0259 e\u015fitdirdi ki, 2 q\u0131z oxuduram ey, onlara \u201csumka\u201d g\u00f6nd\u0259rm\u0259liy\u0259m. H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 d\u0259 bunu dey\u0259nd\u0259 onun yan\u0131nda olanlar deyirdil\u0259r ki, vallah, \u0259rli-arvadl\u0131 siz\u0259 halald\u0131r, bu kas\u0131b\u00e7\u0131l\u0131qla, bu \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259 2 u\u015faq oxudursunuz, kiray\u0259 pullar\u0131n\u0131 verirsiniz, \u0259rzaq g\u00f6nd\u0259rirsiniz… Xan\u0131m el\u0259 q\u00fcrurlan\u0131rd\u0131, el\u0259 q\u00fcrurlan\u0131rd\u0131, bir g\u00f6r\u0259ydiniz…<\/p>\n
Yeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n deyim ki, h\u0259min xan\u0131m\u0131n n\u0259 \u00f6z\u00fc, n\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 ali t\u0259hsil almay\u0131blar. Dediyin\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259, oxumad\u0131qlar\u0131, ali t\u0259hsil almad\u0131qlar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7ox \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kibl\u0259r, \u00e7ox z\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 qatla\u015f\u0131blar, el\u0259 bu g\u00fcn d\u0259 h\u0259min \u00e7\u0259tinliyi ya\u015fay\u0131rlar, ona g\u00f6r\u0259 d\u0259 bu \u0259ziyy\u0259ti, bu \u00e7\u0259tinliyi \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015famalar\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259mirl\u0259r, onlar\u0131 oxudurlar.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ox \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr, Z\u0259rdabda g\u00f6r n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r bel\u0259 \u00f6vlad oxudan ail\u0259 var… Ham\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, t\u0259hsil verm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 bir i\u015fi olmas\u0131na c\u0259hd g\u00f6st\u0259rir.<\/p>\n
B\u0259li, bu g\u00fcn Z\u0259rdabda ail\u0259l\u0259r \u00f6vadlar\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn b\u0259hs\u0259b\u0259s edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n
X\u00fcsusil\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn…<\/p>\n
Allah s\u0259n\u0259 r\u0259hm\u0259t el\u0259sin, H\u0259s\u0259n b\u0259y Z\u0259rdabi el\u0259 s\u0259nin d\u0259 ist\u0259diyin bu idi. \u00d6z\u00fc d\u0259 bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 rayonumuzda, k\u0259ndl\u0259rimizd\u0259 getdikc\u0259 daha da art\u0131r, daha da k\u00fctl\u0259vil\u0259\u015fir.<\/p>\n
Xo\u015fuma g\u0259l\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 bilirsiniz n\u0259dir? T\u0259tild\u0259, bayramda h\u0259min bu oxuyan q\u0131zlar k\u0259nd\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 m\u00fctl\u0259q qohum-qon\u015fu il\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 gedirl\u0259r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri analar\u0131 il\u0259 birg\u0259 k\u0259ndin bu ba\u015f\u0131ndan o biri ba\u015f\u0131na gedir, ham\u0131 bu g\u0259nc t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259y\u0259 \u201cxo\u015f g\u0259lmis\u0259n\u201d deyir, xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259r bildirir v\u0259 bu t\u0259l\u0259b\u0259 d\u0259, anas\u0131 da, lap el\u0259 atas\u0131 da q\u00fcrurlan\u0131r, s\u00f6z\u00fcn yax\u015f\u0131 m\u0259nas\u0131nda lov\u011falan\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Oxumayanlar, h\u0259l\u0259 orta m\u0259kt\u0259b t\u0259hsilin\u0259 davam ed\u0259nl\u0259r is\u0259 y\u0259qin ki, bax\u0131b onlara ox\u015famaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r, onlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u0259nd\u0259 h\u0259min hissl\u0259ri ya\u015famaq fikrin\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrl\u0259r…<\/p>\n
Yeri g\u0259lmi\u015fk\u0259n, oxuyan, ali t\u0259hsil alan a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 q\u0131zlar\u0131n ail\u0259 qurmaq, yax\u015f\u0131 o\u011flanla ail\u0259li olmaq kimi d\u0259 problemi olmur, t\u0259hsili ba\u015fa \u00e7atandan sonra ona \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 yerd\u0259n el\u00e7il\u0259r g\u0259lir…<\/p>\n
Xo\u015f s\u00f6zl\u0259ri, xo\u015f fikirl\u0259ri \u00e7ox yazmaq olar, ancaq bunlar \u00fcr\u0259yimd\u0259n ke\u00e7\u0259nl\u0259rin bir hiss\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n
Sonda bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Z\u0259rdabl\u0131 xan\u0131mlara, Z\u0259rdabl\u0131 analara ayr\u0131ca da t\u0259\u015f\u0259kk\u00fcr etm\u0259k ist\u0259rdim. Bilirsiniz niy\u0259? \u00c7\u00fcnki atalar\u0131n b\u0259zil\u0259ri b\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131, o\u011flanlar\u0131n\u0131 oxutma\u011fa \u00e7ox da maraql\u0131 olmaya bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Ancaq bu g\u00fcn el\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r, el\u0259 atalar u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq ist\u0259yirl\u0259r ki, tam \u0259mins\u0259n bunda qad\u0131nlar\u0131n x\u00fcsusi rolu oldu\u011funa. \u00d6z\u00fc ali t\u0259hsil ala bilm\u0259y\u0259n, almayan, almaq imkan\u0131 olmayan analar \u00f6vladlar\u0131n\u0131n, x\u00fcsus\u0259n d\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n oxumas\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ail\u0259d\u0259 \u0259sl t\u0259bli\u011fat\u00e7\u0131 olurlar v\u0259 \u00e7ox \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr ki, \u00e7ox vaxt da buna nail olurlar…<\/p>\n
\u018flb\u0259tt\u0259, istisna hallar da olar bil\u0259r, y\u0259ni tutaq ki, kims\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaz, erk\u0259n \u0259r\u0259 ver\u0259 bil\u0259r, ancaq \u015fox \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr, Z\u0259rdabda, do\u011fma rayonumuzda bu, k\u00fctl\u0259vi hal almay\u0131b.<\/p>\n
H\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 \u00f6vlad\u0131n\u0131 oxutmaq ist\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131n\u0131n artd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc oda-k\u00f6z\u0259 vuranlar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fckc\u0259 H\u0259s\u0259n b\u0259y Z\u0259rdabinin h\u0259yat v\u0259 yarad\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 oxuduqlar\u0131m yad\u0131ma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr. B\u0259li, H\u0259s\u0259n b\u0259y Z\u0259rdabi d\u0259 Z\u0259rdab\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, Z\u0259rdabl\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259hsil arzulay\u0131rd\u0131. H\u0259s\u0259n b\u0259y Z\u0259rdabinin h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 H\u0259nif\u0259 xan\u0131m M\u0259likova (Abayeva) q\u0131zlar\u0131n t\u0259hsil almalar\u0131 \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259kib, imkans\u0131z ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n olan q\u0131zlar \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn anal\u0131q edib. \u0130ndi onlar\u0131n da ruhlar\u0131 \u015fadd\u0131r. \u018fziz Z\u0259rdabl\u0131lar, bel\u0259 davam edin, t\u0259ki h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 bel\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 i\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259 b\u0259hsl\u0259\u015f\u0259k…<\/p>\n
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